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Those really cute lil girls(older one wrote a Thank you card) were in the office again while Mom got her cleaning 💙

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I sat with them in our lil play area and asked how Halloween & Thanksgiving went. Asked what their Christmas plans were. Asked if Dad was able to get anything on his hunts. They said a boar and an elk, that'll last them a long time. Asked if they had guns, and they both have BB guns😊When Mom was done she took a pic in front of our Christmas Toy Drive area for local kiddos. A long term pt is a Parishioner at the Catholic Church

Here's the previous HU post

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As I said before, I feel so Blessed to still be able to see pts 8 years post Dx

and just be silly, singing random songs of course🎶😁

Life is Beautiful

Fight on, Love on, Laugh on, Hug on

Much Aloha to y'all

Mele Kalikimaka

Randy

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Oh, and since it's almost Christmas - here's my fav song from Hawaii youtube.com/watch?v=0wQMSbA...

And one from my new Fav young Jazz Singer Samara Joy jazzecho.de/samara-joy/vide...

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Kaliber

awwwww how cute , you are so kewl . What did you do to that little ones face ? Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya

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Lol, the girls were at a School Christmas party and the lil one was Rudolph with antlers on forehead and a Red Nose. The older one had a Christmas tree on her R cheek

Fight on, Christmas On

Randy

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well that’s a relief… I was hoping you hadn’t branched into face tattooing of children yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. Just kidding of course my bruddha.

❤️❤️❤️

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Yea, don't think that the Dental Board of Ca would allow me to do face tattoos :-)

Yea, I know ur Kidding my Big Bruddah. I could use tattooed eyebrows tho, never got them back :-)

Luv you my bro

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

Hay mannnn …. A little super glue and some trimmings from that black cat next door .. no lashes , nolo problemo .

I’ve seen those infomercials for tattooed lashes on the TV ….. they look surprisingly great , and none of those eyelash mites. ( démodéx ) …. How great is that. Just say’in yayahahahaya

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Lol, I've had pts offer to do them for me. No one really notices that I don't have them, I think cuz the glasses go right across that area.

No hair, don't care

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

yea…. I agree , you doing really need the …you look great as you are. It’s the big smile that gets the attention buddy

😁😁😁

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A smile never costs anything, but the impact of it can really brighten someone's Day

Of course, I gotta post a song youtu.be/xyHoohNyYkw

Fight on Live on Smile often :-)

Randy

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good song, good dental song yayahahahaya his teeth were very white and well maintained looking too. Just say’in

Yayahahahaya

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Yes, a classic. Heading South to pick up #1 son and his wife for a beach side hike and lunch

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that sounds like fun … hope your weather is good there. Its been a little chilly here 55f days …39f nights and heavy Tule fog. On the edge of twilight all day today , have both high and low fog. Common in years when we’ve had rain in the past. It’s good to see the refreshing wetness for a change, great jacuzzi weather yayahahahaya. always love the coast …anytime.

❤️❤️❤️

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On way back up. Here's a pic will post an album later

Huntington Beach with Bryan and Zarina
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Scout4answers

What a beautiful picture full of love

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Yes, so very cute that they 'dig' their DDS that much :-) I'm their Crazy Uncle

I'm like Underdog :

youtu.be/6e-AZkbiWc8

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youtube.com/watch?v=RbMT5-e...

"I believe the children are our future

Teach them well and let them lead the way

Show them all the beauty they possess inside

Give them a sense of pride to make it easier

Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be" Whitney Houston youtu.be/IYzlVDlE72w

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Like do I know of Bowie?

Modern Love, Let's Dance, Changes, China Girl :-)

and this for our PCa fight:

Oh we can beat them, for ever and ever

Then we could be Heroes, just for one day

We can be Heroes

We can be Heroes

We can be Heroes

Just for one day

We can be Heroes

And this Timely one youtu.be/lCpXMy5GalI

Mele Kalikimaka and Fight on

Randy

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AMIN25

You are very positive - at times its overwhelming - Enjoy the holidays.

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dockam in reply to AMIN25

I'm 8 years in with #stageivpca (Mets to L ureter lymph nodes, PSA @840.2), old data said only a 28% chance of 5 years. In 01/2015, MO said I was dx'd at the right time as the CHAARTED data just dropped showing that ADT and chemo simultaneously gave the men 17 more months.

So, the overwhelming positivity is a result of still being here, working, hiking, enjoying QoL and work still :-) . Carpe dang diem

And, of course, when two cute lil pts run up and hug you and then so easily pose with their Crazy dentist that makes my year!!

Or when this fam of 4 boys take a pic with me.

All boy patients !
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KaimukiGal

12/16/22 Aloha, Dockam, that’s an intriguing holiday photo. You’ve given us a view of your personal goals, triumphs, challenges and changes. You’re driven to achieve but exude gentle aloha. I pray, God be willing, we’ll have a chance to talk on the phone or even meet in person. In a few days, you’ll be flying to Oahu for the holidays to meet with friends & family and to scarf down some onolicious local food! My husband has prostate cancer and I’m new to HealthUnlocked. Your example gives me courage and shows me that there’s much learning and growth in this new chapter of life.

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Aloha Sista, been a lil bit, hope that all is well with you and hubby :-)

I've gone through a lot in these last 8 years. Brief back story. Had ordered PSA via privatemdlabs.com 2010 PSA @ 4.7, probs was PCa then, but being stupid man I didn't follow up. Then 10/13/2014 PSA @ 555, 10 days later @ 633, then 12/2014 @ 840. L kidney damage from the L ureter being crushed by the PCa in the lymph nodes. Ureter stents placed, then replaced 6 months later.

Was about 3 or 4 chemos in and PSA was dropping, MO asked Tumor Board members what to do in my case, no one said more chemos. Dr. Vora told me "I'll give you more chemos until you tell me to stop or the #s plateau" He let me have 9 more Taxotere sessions over the 6 protocol. I'm, still here because he thought way outside the box. Abiraterone failed in 2020 and then Xtandi, tried another 6 Taxoteres, no go. Then 18 Cabazitaxels over a year ending in Nov.

So, still upright, I say that to my pts :-) I would love to meet you both, and maybe infuse you with Aloha and Optimism . I'll msg you my cell and email and flight info.

zerocancer.org/blog/ive-bee...

Let's meet, get ono grindz and talk story

Me ke Aloha Pumehana youtu.be/gdFft_aQDIY

Randy ur new Bruddah :-)

Hanauma Bay with HNL marathon medal 2019
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AMIN25

Great spirit - Dockam - enjoy the holidays - always great to listen and be motivated with all your energy and positivity.

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dockam in reply to AMIN25

Mahalo nui loa(Thank you very much)

And here's to you enjoying the Holidays also

Aloha

Randy

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Carlosbach

Awesome Randy. Love the pic. Says a lot about you and your kind character

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah, I've always been pretty cool with pts, but now with PCa in me, it's time to #bekind and Spread Aloha and appreciate everyday that I am still here

Fight on, Smile on, Hug on

Luv ya Bro

Randy

Randy, your a good man… I wish I was your Hygienist, loving all those bright smiles.!❤️

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Awww, Mahalo for that. And we do have fun at the office laughing, joking and of course singing 🎶I have an Alexa in the operator and the RDHs play whatever they wanna.

Inevitably, something will trigger a song and I'll start singing, and one of the hygienists will join in 💙

Sing on youtu.be/t2VZkk7wbVg

The singing Hygienist and Front desk lady on Aloha Friday

you know I am loving those faces Randy! I sing too, if you ever have an opening. Lol love the carpenters!❤️

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Awesome, are you Licensed in CA? 😊This one's for you youtu.be/QAnOOBgb8A8

Did you look through the pix from my Cinderella musical? There are pix of the Carpenters memorabilia that was on display at their Theater

Mele Kalikimaka

Sing, sing a song

Make it simple to last

Your whole life long

Don't worry that it's not

Good enough for anyone

Else to hear

Just sing, sing a song

Much Aloha

Randy

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Randy I know every word to most of their beautiful songs, such a lovely voice Karen Carpenter had.

I am a retired Pa hygienist, Temple Dental School…a long time ago.

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Yes, so distinctive and beautiful.

I got outta USC Dental School in 1983, I had a pt last night and after the exam I said that I graduated a month after he was born :-)

My fav Christmas song of theirs is "Merry Christmas Darling"

Mele Kalikimaka to you and yours

Aloha nui loa

I posted this with the Cinderella post, youtu.be/jyQTBZ6r0T4

Randy

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