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QOL post , easy home seafood feast same as fine restaurant. Anyone can do it.

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this QOL seafoodie feast is one anyone that lives in the city can do. The Bloody Mary drinks optional but highly recommended. Consider making them Virgin Mary’s if you want that “ full “ fancy restaurant experience but don’t drink alcohol.

This is lobster tail, shrimp sautéed in garlic and butter, medium sized skewered scallops, soft cooked breaded fantail shrimp, rice pilaf and Broccoli….. biscuits. The bloody Mary’s recipe from google , The fresh zesty one with lots of fresh lemon and lime in it. The seafood is a home DoorDash delivery from Red Lobster. Easy breezy , no fuss no mess , brain numbing delicious. Watched Sunday night football , feasted and had drinks with the wife. QOL ….. oh my yes.

Anyone out there can do this , even if you don’t cook … great weekend “ special “ for yourself and your loved ones. Takes your mind off “ things “ for a while ( longer while with the drinks 😁 ) , great stuff brothers. Mid week works out as well. Yayahahahaya

basically home delivery done on a grander scale ….more in tune with a QOL experience than plain ole burgers and fries … just say’in.

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Kaliber

Bloody Mary’s made at home … recipe that uses multiple seasonings and fresh lemon and lime to make it zesty.

Bloody Mary with fresh lemon and line.
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Lrv44221 in reply to Kaliber

You are so great with all your QoL posts. thank you.

i hope to try that. 🍤

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Kaliber in reply to Lrv44221

Thank you for saying so ….. ❤️❤️❤️

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dockam

Oh that looks so delish!! And what a variety of proteins that you have :-).

Great QoL post, Life's too short to deprive yourself. Carpe Feedem :-)

I love Bloody Mary's, but really can't do too spicy any more, maybe taste buds are oversensitive after all those chemos

Fight on, Rock on, Feast On

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

thank you bruddha … I appreciate it. I go light on the hot sauce myself, the hammer doesn’t do too spicy anymore as well.

Yayahahahaya

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tango65

Looks great. What kind of shrimps are those?

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Kaliber

yea we’re lucky here, we are only about 100 miles out of Monterey, Ca … it’s a really big seafood terminal, …. For example, You can watch the squid boats all lit up at night during season …. and caravans of big rigs loading them up for transport. Hard to imagine they draw that much seafood out of there. Most everything is quite seasonal , of course. They raise abalone there , right under the commercial fishing pier and the pier has a big retail outlet for “ todays “ catches.

Trucks line up to transport all the seafood at night, most of it going north to S.F. and Napa Valley , but there is an enormous Asian population in the Fresno Metro ( over 100,000 ) … we are a big market for the seafood and low trans port charges to truck here. Big transport heavy aircraft land here daily loaded as well.

My brother-in- law lives in LaPorte , Tx …. He retired from his chemical mfg business ( also in LaPorte ) … we can walk just down the street from his condo and throw a line in the water , and catch fish fresh for supper. yayahahahaya yayahahahaya.

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Boywonder56 in reply to Kaliber

Best calamari ever had at fishermans wharf in monterey.......

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Kaliber in reply to Boywonder56

No doubt super fresh … they probably caught it about a quarter mile out in the bay , right outside the restaurant window. Yayahahahaya.

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Boywonder56 in reply to Kaliber

What they said....i used to work in la porte....live part time now in houston...get spoiled on seafood...we catch commercial red snapper for hobby

Like this...
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Kaliber in reply to Boywonder56

yea fishing in the gulf is great fun and productive. BIL loves those charter trips out about 40 miles. The hammer used to go out with him when she visited in summers.

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Kaliber

I replied to you below but missed attaching it to you …sorry. 😂😂😂

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tango65

Thanks. I wanted to know what kind of shrimps in the menu were the ones you selected. They look great in your picture.

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oh !!!!! ……. ( yayahahahaya yayahahahaya ) …. It was the seafarer’s feast . Also ordered the cheesecake too … 😁😁😁

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tango65 in reply to Kaliber

Great!! Thanks.

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dockam

Oh those look so wonderfully delicious. And a flute with Champagne to go with it? Veuve Clicquot?

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

that’s a great idea …. And the bubbles tickle your nose yayahahahaya yayahahahaya.

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Bubble On Bruddah

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Might I suggest grapey good Lambrusco? A red wine with bubbles for people like me with an unsophisticated palate. Probably wrong for seafood but was great with that Thanksgiving turkey.

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its whatever floats your boat imho. Enjoyment is the cause and effect. If you enjoy it, do the heck out of it. 😁😁😁

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westof

Hmm... Hey Brother K!!

That is really a feast for the Gods!!

You should consider trying out for Gordon Ramsey's "Hells Kitchen". Who Knows??

Now, regarding Bloody Marys ...

I thought that you were on STRICT dietary maintenance regarding ANY type intoxicants!!

That would include alcohol, weed, schrooms , mescaline, acid and maybe even Draino!!😁

If I didn't live 3000 miles away, I'd invite myself and "Darling Wife" over.

Best,

💓💓💓

AJ

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Kaliber in reply to westof

hey brother westof …. Yayahahahaya. I’m on a strict “ seefood “ diet. See food, eat it. 😂😂 you can get that exact “ feast for the gods “ for yourself, in your local Red Lobster restaurant , they have DD delivery and curbside pickup. 😁😁😁

Absolutely right …. No intoxicants for me yayahahahaya yayahahahaya Noooooooo Not hardly yayahahahaya. And hey man, don’t discount Draino, I hear tell it can be used for a variety of different things used related to …er …ah … well, you know , chemical processes.

😂😂😂

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Benkaymel

You're making my mouth water at such a delicious looking dish. Definitely have the Bloody Mary to wash it down! Great QoL post.

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Kaliber in reply to Benkaymel

thanks guy, I appreciate it.

❤️❤️❤️

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Jvaughan0

Good to see boys with cancer just want to have fun. (Sorry, Cyndi.) The joy of being alive is obvious, and it got my day off to a good start. ...now for a bowl of oatmeal and decaf coffee, oh well. Thanks everyone.

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Kaliber in reply to Jvaughan0

hey … oatmeal and coffee are a great morning start ( or anytime ) . Starting your day off with a nice robust breakfast is always a beneficial way to start anyones day.

Then follow up and plan a short local trip, or a longer resort visit , ….. anything ….. with the loved ones. Those of us still able better get going … now … our clocks are ticking loudly.

❤️❤️❤️

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Scout4answers

Please send some skewered scallops my way. Looks great , you are making me rethink my aversion to Red Lobster 😎

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Kaliber in reply to Scout4answers

no kidding. My recent years visits to RL weren’t memorable, to say the least. We were pleasantly surprised that this delivery meal was well prepared and obviously cooked with culinary skill. Maybe all those culinary schools are starting to pay off. Yayahahahaya.

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Boywonder56 in reply to Scout4answers

Your aversion is correct....i think if u live near an ocean you fare better with the red lobster menu.....i wont go to one in new mexico....

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Carlosbach

Looks yummy K. You make continuing to live sound like a good idea. Sign me up!

I had a place on the oregon coast for a while. Loved being at the beach, but the best thing about it was the super fresh seafood. I frequented the place where you could see them unload the day's catch and set to work cleaning it immediately. No door dash in that extremely small town, but many's the night I made a dash out for some take home to be savored in front of the fire.

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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

yessiree buddy … now you’re talk’in.

I intend to stretch my remaining time out as much as possible and I’m gonna try to fill it with interesting, distracting , fun things to do . This especially with the wife in tandem. “ continuing to live “ is an important thought. To hell with sitting around wringing our hands wondering if we really need this chit on a stick life. Let’s all of us , instead, fill it with some great family enjoyment that enriches us and makes our loved ones smile. Wives “ know “ when we are thinking those “ dark “ thoughts … QOL helps every everyone have a better life worth living for. I don’t want to be in hospice crying, thinking back on what could have been when I had my last good quality time … just say’in.

❤️❤️❤️

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

My philosophy as well. Sometimes my hammer (little h, not a capital H - don't want to offend the original Hammer) gets worried that I am doing too much, pushing myself too hard, but I'm determined to seize as much pleasure and joy from this life as I can.

If I was Randy I would post a clip from Jim Carry's movie "Yes Man" here. Ask me if I want to try something new, I'll respond YES, DAMN IT! YES!!!

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Right on my cancer compadres!

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yeaaaaaaa buddy …. I’m on board. Here , I can’t do “ all that “ because it’s the hammer pushing me in a wheeled chair, with a bad back. I have to take it easy for her. Places where I can use my etrike … makes it easy for her, but I can’t take it everywhere.

💪💪💪😁😁😁

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

I understand and sympathize with the physical limitations that keep your body constrained, but I find it encouraging that you won't let your physical health limit your QOT (quality of thought). Keep on triking!

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Yes, I agree, you are overcoming your PCa meds side effects and back issues to enjoy QoL trips, cooking and Food

Come on guys, get out and Carpe Dang Diem

Randy

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cancerfox

Here's a tip for getting a free meal at a Red Lobster restaurant. Let them drop your drink in your lap when they bring it to the table. Happened to my friend when I was eating lunch with him years ago at a Red Lobster, so his meal was free! 😆 🦊

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Kaliber in reply to cancerfox

ewwwwww … dunno about that cold drink, plus the embarrassment of getting up and looking like you pee’d yourself yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. You’d have to walk back down the entire shopping center scowling at people who are giving you the “ looks and laughing “ yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. Next I’d prolly be a /Reddit mime yayahahahaya.

😂😂😂😂

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Carlosbach

Got you. I think most of us face mental decline as well as physical. I know that I would hate to have to take my old (pre SE's) self in any kind of a mental challenge.

However, dumbed down or not, I try to keep whatever brain activity that remains focused on getting the most out of my life. You, Doc and the others help to reinforce that approach and outlook. Thanks

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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

yea, I might have to tell MENSA to come and take their Wall plaque back. Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya.

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

maybe they’ll bestow an honorary membership

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

Hey, Carlosbach , Mahalo for the mention 😀 There is Chemo Brain, and ADT induced cognitive issues: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articl....

Cardio may increase BDNF: psychologytoday.com/us/blog....

Also, cardio perfuses Oxygen thruout your body into the very fine capillaries in brain and fingers/toes, that may prevent neuropathy and cognitive issues too.

Fight On, Live on, Laugh on

Randy

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Kaliber

Captain James T Kirk starship enterprise yayahahahaya

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Kaliber

“ this is a QOL moment brother. ….

moon set at 6:30 a.m. today … Monterey Bay.

Moonset over Monterey Bay , waves right up to building
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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Wow, great pic💙. YASS, a huge QoL moment.

Mahalo for posting, can't hardly wait for whale pix and maybe Food Porn.

You know me and songs, this one popped into my ADT brain:

youtu.be/5CmyUigP8mQ

Fight on, Moonglow on

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

it’s really nice here, the soothing, pounding, surf sounds are wonderful. Sitting out on the walkway, four stories up for a great view. Not too windy, warm in the sun. This is where we got that amazing cioppino last visit. Going for that for supper tonight. Not thinking about “ anything “ except how nice this is. A deluxe mind salve. Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. A fine QOL trip .

❤️❤️❤️

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Lovely my Bruddah, a little RnR is a requirement for everyone, but esp for us dealing with Adv PCa.

Oh, I'm so jealous of you getting Cioppino :-), I'll have to head up there someday.

Carpe Diem and Enjoy Brother

QoL on, Travel on

This one's for you: youtu.be/yj6CxEbMo4o

Randy

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

❤️❤️❤️ great song too … the tune master strikes again.

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CAMPSOUPS in reply to Kaliber

Kewl. It's like we were hangin out at your place 24 hours ago and went to Monterey with you. Nice!

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Kaliber in reply to CAMPSOUPS

this is our Christmas present. It’s been a great day. The off season room is affordable and I’m in a wheeled chair and still having a great time. This is something about any of us can do and take our minds off things and elevate our moods. Perfect for anyone for an affordable QOL trip. Whale watching boats from the pier out in front of us , no whales yet.

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Carlosbach in reply to Kaliber

Trying to not be jealous, but I am a cantankerous old croaker - "Hey you kids, take that racket outside!!!

I'm fortunate enough to get over to the Oregon coast regularly. No Cypress trees doing a full sized impression of Bonzai, but still amazingly healing. Here's a pic of my son and youngest grandchild taken near Newport on the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Beautiful sunset that day, but the best part was when my granddaughter snuggled up close to me in the recliner and took a nap. Ahhhh

Sunset on Oregon coast
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Kaliber in reply to Carlosbach

lovely…. a loving family can be powerful medicine. Especially the pure , innocent love of a snuggling grandaughter. That’s “ premium “ QOL “ time , best of the best buddy.

Great looking beach location too. We don’t all have family that will succeed us … You are lucky my friend. Great QOL contribution. It’s not necessarily just about travel and culinary exploits, hobbies, …. loving family action is tops on the list.

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Kaliber

You are prolly being kind. Captain Kirk I’m thinking of was WAY back in 1966 … you might have been too young or not even born yet , to know / remember. yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. It’s great talking with you, I appreciate it.

❤️❤️❤️

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