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Hi to all

It is with a very heavy heart that I write that I lost my best friend , husband father grandfather and friend to many, this week to this monster disease.

I have followed this site earnestly, albeit have not contributed much.

Thank you to all you warriors, there were many nights I would stay up and read about your lives and treatments, successes and failures.

The courage you display has kept me positive. I’m afraid his time ran out after a big fight.

My heart is broken, feels almost surreal

Bless you all keep fighting

Xxxx❤️❤️

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Schwah

So sorry to hear. Sounds like you loved him so very much. I hope they were able to keep himComfortable in his final days. Thanks for the kind words for the gang.

Schwah

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Bebby1 in reply toSchwah

Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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lcfcpolo

My sincere condolences Bebby to you and all of your family. Please take the time to heal. God bless you all.Graham

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Bebby1 in reply tolcfcpolo

I feel numbBut have love and support thank you

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Magnus1964

You have given him the most important gift, love. Keep him in your heart.

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Bebby1 in reply toMagnus1964

He’s the other half of my heart So there’s no real escape

Just learning to live again xx

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rowdy1 in reply toBebby1

So sorry for your loss, it has been a long battle. You were the warrior he needed, now let people be there for you.

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DarrylPartner

Condolences

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Bebby1 in reply toDarryl

Thank you You’ve been there

Always in the background

Thank you again

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16starsky

Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family, so sorry to read your post. God bless xxx

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Bebby1 in reply to16starsky

Thank you Bless you x

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Tall_Allen

Thanks for letting us know. I'm sorry for your loss. I didn't get to know him through his words, but judging by your grief, I missed out on a lot.

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Bebby1 in reply toTall_Allen

I often read your posts to him He was in awe of your knowledge and commitment thank you x

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Lyubov

With deep sympathy and prayers for strength as you endure the incalculable loss of your beloved husband.

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Bebby1 in reply toLyubov

The kids is physical The pain is raw

Thank you x

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Faith1111

So heartbreaking. I can’t imagine how you must feel right now. Truly must feel surreal as you said. Please know that although we are scattered around the world, we are connected with one heart. We care for each other and when one suffers we all do to some extent. Love and peace to you and your family.

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Bebby1 in reply toFaith1111

I shall keep reading and praying for you all x

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dockam

My deepest condolences for His passing and I hope that he did not suffer near the end and that family was there beside him.Hugs from CA

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Bebby1 in reply todockam

We were right there till his last breatheThank you

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TylexGP

Dear Bebby,

Always hard to hear one of our members has passed away. From your post it is clear how much he was loved. May you and your families loving memories help soften the loss. We are here if you need us.

Kind regards,

Tylex

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Bebby1 in reply toTylexGP

Thank you You feel like one big family x

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Boywonder56

You have a piece of his soul....he has apiece of your.....thats what will always comfort you....in time peace...and smiles from the good memorys...my condolences bw

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Bebby1 in reply toBoywonder56

Luke all of you He was a very special man

It’s hard to imagine going forward

But we will

X

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Yadifan

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you're surrounded with love and comfort as you go through this hard time. There's a prostate cancer caregiver site here that a lot of us belong to also. Please come here if you need a friend or a virtual hug. We share this pain together.

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Bebby1 in reply toYadifan

Thank you That’s great

Bless you x

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Aodh

I am so sorry for your loss.

Please now take good care of your self in the coming weeks and months; it’s very important that you show the same level of devotion now to your self as you did your husband. You deserve no less.

Hugh

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Bebby1 in reply toAodh

The kids are in pain It’s so hard

But we will all continue to fund raise

For all of you x

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Bunkerboy

My deepest condolences🙏🏻

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Bebby1 in reply toBunkerboy

Thank you 🙏🏽

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PSA680

Dear Bebby1 - my sincere condolences for your sad loss. Thank you for your kind words. May he rest in peace now his battle is over and god bless you ❤️❤️

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Bebby1 in reply toPSA680

Such a brave battle Keep fighting 🙏🏽

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Haniff

My sincere condolences.

Stay strong in his memory.

Haniff

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Bebby1 in reply toHaniff

I will try Thank you x

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MMK-XFuture

Very sorry about your loss. May you find comfort in knowing he is now at peace. Take care.

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Bebby1 in reply toMMK-XFuture

He is at peace That’s true

We just need to remember that x

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addicted2cycling

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BigTex3

I’m so sorry for your loss. We will pray for your family as you deal with the loss of someone so special.

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Bebby1 in reply toBigTex3

Thank you hang in there x

I pray God surrounds you with love and peace and holds you close in his hands. 🌻

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Bebby1 in reply to

Thank you 🙏🏽

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spw1

Very sorry to hear this. Sending heartfelt condolences. 🙏

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Bebby1 in reply tospw1

Thank you Keep fighting 🙏🏽

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Flash64

Sorry for your loss

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Bebby1 in reply toFlash64

Thank you ❤️

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Jollyjill

So very sorry for you and your family.

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Bebby1 in reply toJollyjill

Thank you x

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Sisira

Sending my sincere condolences !

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Bebby1 in reply toSisira

You all need to fight and Beat this xx

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larry_dammit

Words are never enough at a time like this, we all face the grim reaper with this fight ,some before others 😢. So sorry for your lose 😢😢😢🙏🙏

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Bebby1 in reply tolarry_dammit

Thank you stay alert I’m praying for you allx

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hopeful1956

Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your family. It breaks my heart to hear this news.

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Bebby1 in reply tohopeful1956

Thank you It’s a pain I’ve ever known

I will heal 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Channelhomec

My condolences

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Bebby1 in reply toChannelhomec

Thank you x

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dadzone43

I hope that your pain lasts only as long as you need it.

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Bebby1 in reply todadzone43

I pray that it is short Thank you x

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BadNews4me

Condolences Bebby1🙏🙏

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Bebby1 in reply toBadNews4me

Thank you x

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Bebby1

❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

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wagscure259

My wife and I offer our sincere condolences. I am both an individual with cancer and a caregiver to my love who has cancer. Your expressions of love are music to my ears. I know how that support and adoration for your husband was immeasurable for him to know and palpable to feel. Praying for God’s peace which passes all understanding for you and your family.

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Bebby1 in reply towagscure259

Look after each other Cherish every moment 🙏🏽

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Vangogh1961

So sorry for your loss.

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Bebby1 in reply toVangogh1961

Look after yourself x

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Tonwantonga

My condolences, Bebby1.

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Bebby1 in reply toTonwantonga

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Hailwood

My deepest condolences

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Bebby1 in reply toHailwood

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Bebby1 in reply toHailwood

Thank you x

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Kaliber

Another fallen valiant warrior… I’m so sorry for your loss , my heartfelt condolences out to you and the family. Sounds like hubby had a wonderful loving caregiver , he was so lucky to have you Bebby . I wish you the best moving forward, that your grief will subside quickly and your new changed world will be a bright new horizon for you.

❤️❤️❤️

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Bebby1 in reply toKaliber

Thank you hard to see anything without him But he would want me to find that horizon 😪

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Kaliber in reply toBebby1

❤️❤️❤️

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Bebby1 in reply toKaliber

Thank you x

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MateoBeach

So sorry for your loss. 🙏💕

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Bebby1 in reply toMateoBeach

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Spyder54

Our sincere condolences. He knows he was loved, and that love continues to eternity. ❤️

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Bebby1 in reply toSpyder54

He was very loved 😢… thank you

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Spyder54 in reply toBebby1

Love your icon camping photo at twilight!

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Currumpaw

Bebby1,

I am so sorry to read your post.

Care for yourself now. You will never forget and there is no getting over "it" but with time the rawness of the pain recedes and we "learn to live with the loss" and be grateful that we shared life with the one we miss.

Family, friends and clergy can be helpful and--sometimes not! There will be times when you need to be alone. That is natural.

Currumpaw

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Bebby1 in reply toCurrumpaw

I’m thank God for friends They are priceless

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Shooter1

One again, I feel a personal loss as one of my aPca brothers passes. I know he fought it and I am fighting. I have recently entered the painful part of this darned disease as I start my 5th year. Life Is Good and death is part of it. We accept this but still hate to see a brother leave. Rest in peace.

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Bebby1 in reply toShooter1

I’m sorry …. Keep well Fight !🙏🏽

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ctflatlander

May he R.I.P.

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Bebby1 in reply toctflatlander

Thank you x

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Xtandiuser

I can’t say it any better, so DITTO! So sorry for your loss, Bebby! 🙏❤️🙏

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Bebby1 in reply toXtandiuser

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Rev214

Sorry to hear about your loss! All is not over yet and hope is in the 1st ressurection(John 5:28-29; Revelation 20:6) where those sleeping in the grave are raised first, then the living raise to meet them in the clouds, and finally together they meet our Savior in the air. (1 Thessalonians 4:16-17). Then the promise of Christ to take us to our heavenly homes he as been preparing for the faithful, in His Father's heaven will finally be realized. (John 14:1-3). Never to suffer sadness, disease, pain or any evil ever again!( Revelation 21:4). Sadness is only banished after the 2nd Ressurection of the lost(Revelation 20:5,7), and the final phase of judgment where they ratify God's judgment concerning their cases and further demonstrate their rebellion by attacking the Holy City. Never give up! We will be reunited!

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Bebby1 in reply toRev214

Bless you 🙏🏽

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Tied2work

Sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Peace.

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Bebby1 in reply toTied2work

Thank you stay strong x

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Bebby1 in reply toTied2work

He is in peace That I do know

Thank you x

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j-o-h-n

Dear Bebby1,

Well I never met your dear husband but I know I will sometime in the near future. Hopefully I can make him laugh as we talk about our trials and tribulations here on Earth. We will exchange the feelings about how devoted our loved ones are and how we miss them. I have a strong feeling that he was an avid domino player as well as card playing and we will spend our peaceful time beating each other. I send you, your children, grandchildren, family and friends my deepest heartfelt condolences. God Bless you all.....Time heals all wounds...

j-o-h-n Tuesday 02/08/2022 3:45 PM EST

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Bebby1 in reply toj-o-h-n

He loved cards !!!Thank you

Reading these genuine words from this site makes my heart swell… scary for you all

I wish you all the best

I want you to keep fighting ALL OF YOU

I want a cure … in my life time x

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catsup

He maybe gone from this earth but will live forever in your heart. God bless you with strength during this trying time.

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Bebby1 in reply tocatsup

Thank you so much x

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cancerfox

So sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you.

😪

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Bebby1 in reply tocancerfox

Thank you My thoughts remain with you all🙏🏽

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benninger

So sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

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Bebby1 in reply tobenninger

Thank you x

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Lasered

So sorry for your loss! Prayers go out for friends and family. God bless!

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Bebby1 in reply toLasered

Thank you The kindness on this site is overwhelmingly

Comforting🙏🏽

💔🙏

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❤️😪💔🙏🏽

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😔🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

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Bebby1 in reply to

Those we love feel like angels when they pass I look for signs

We made a deal that we would send signs whichever went first

He may still be celebrating with the meet and greet

But I’ll stay awake

And they will come

Thank you all so much

I feel your fear in facing this demon

But the treatments and trials keep on coming

I hope you can all beat this

I respect your courage so much

It’s been a pleasure to know you all

Each post I imagine who you are

I’ll keep watching

GOD BLESS

Xxxx

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CAMPSOUPS in reply toBebby1

I of course am very sorry for your loss but also very touched by you as well. Your words are really kind and geared towards us (feel our fear, respect our courage). Thank you so much. I hope you will soon heal from this and remember the good times, the good memories, how he looked before the end came. All that. I say that because from my experience for a time after passing my mind only see's the image of my loved family member as they appeared in the last hours. This will pass.

My wife especially and me as well look for those signs in loved ones that have passed. There is no proof but we wholly entertain those thoughts. I'm with you there.

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Bebby1 in reply toCAMPSOUPS

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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My father appeared to me in dream 3 months after he passed from the heart after an RP and adt .24 yrs ago .He was cloaked in white ,beard and hair too . He said. “ I am alright” This has put me at peace ever since . My your dreams shed light and hope .. The Cherokee believe that the spirit stays around for a yr if it’s happy and only longer if in turmoil . For all advanced prostate families the end to pain and suffering on earth is a win . When the pain gets too great we all will submit to Gods mercy . Prayers and love to you in this transition . You are not alone .. 💔🙏😔

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Bebby1 in reply to

My eyes are open Thank you

I need to believe

One day if I am blessed, I may see a sign

I just want to know he’s ok

X

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He is! 😔💔

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Keep an eye out for angels. 🙏😔

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rosatt1

Thanks for letting us know it can be a terrible and cruel disease.

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Bebby1 in reply torosatt1

Thank you X

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Chiquis

I'm really sorry for your loss. I send you a hug. You are not alone🙏🤍

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Bebby1 in reply toChiquis

Thank you Take care

Stay alert xx

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kcareer

Sorry to learn about your loss. May his soul rest in peace. Please, take care of yourselves.

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Bebby1 in reply tokcareer

Thank you I will continue to follow and pray for you all 🙏🏽

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