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My Guy Update

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My guy is home from the hospital. He's on a boatload of pain medication, medication to poop, medication to pee, medication to relax, picc line delivering dilaudid 24 hours a day with a booster if needed, medication for appetite, and medication for nerve pain, etc. So sad to see my once strong and active husband no longer strong and active. I'm thankful he's no longer in pain, I'm thankful he is home, I'm thankful for every minute I spend with him and thankful for the sweet pecks on the lip. Not sure how long I have with him. The pain of watching him struggle and hearing his weak voice. I hope I can handle this.

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Sea5

Thinking of you...sending prayers, good thoughts, and wishes for an abundance of sweet moments for you and your guy.

Thank God that he is back home with you .. 🙏

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Schwah

You can handle this because he needs you too. One day at a time. That’s all you can do. You’re in our prayers.

Schwah

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Magnus1964

I am sorry for his pain and yours. It made me sad just reading your post stay strong and take care of yourself also.

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LearnAll

These type of moments are very difficult to deal with. Life can not be good all the time. Sadly, that is the hard reality.

Keeping him 100% pain free and anxiety free should be the priority. Lots of love and prayers for your family. As they say "this shall pass too" Time does not stop for anyone.

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4girls

I will be praying for strength and peace for you and your guy.

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SuppWife

Sending positive thoughts to you and your husband. God bless you both.

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tom67inMA

So sorry to hear! My wife and I went through something similar with my father-in-law. She left her job to take care of him, and I would travel down on weekends to help out. It's truly awful to watch a loved one wither away.

Let me assure you that you are doing the best you can possibly do given the situation. Just the fact that he's in familiar surroundings at home, with you by his side, is a victory of sorts. Sending love to you both.

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siouxbee19

My thoughts and prayers are with you both...🙏♥️

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Tub111

Sending love, hugs and strength to you. You’re doing an amazing job just being with him and at home.

Never doubt yourself, ever...we’re all here for you both...

Sheri 🤗💕

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HealThyb

Prayers for peace, for strength, for comfort, for love to be with you both during this difficult time. 💜

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j-o-h-n

God is on your side...........

j-o-h-n Saturday 11/02/2019 12:48 PM DST

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Drphil1938 in reply to j-o-h-n

AMEN

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j-o-h-n in reply to Drphil1938

APERSON (p.c. correct).

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 11/02/2019 1:24 PM DST

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Drphil1938 in reply to j-o-h-n

Really!! You are blessed with a wit that is beyond compare. I say, "amen" to that.🍸🍸🤠

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depotdoug in reply to j-o-h-n

Got to got to remember always God is on your(my) side. Thank you j-o-h-n

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j-o-h-n in reply to depotdoug

What's more.... I'm on your side too.........

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Thursday 12/26/2019 4:59 PM EST

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tallguy2

Prayers flowing. Love him every day!

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MelaniePaul

I wish your husband that he does not suffer with pain or any other discomfort and I wish you the strength to deal with the next couple of weeks and perhaps months and the strength to be kind to yourself and him and to reach out for help if you need to.

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scarlino

Praying for you both.

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dvcarola2

You are stronger more than you could ever imagine. He is so blessed to have you by his side. Prayers offered for you both 🙏

Thanking each and every one of you for your kind words, encouragement, prayers, and thoughts. You all are gifts in this world and on this sight. Phyllis

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