First Job

[Shamasamdrew]

My son is 16 and was successful getting his first job at a restaurant. He is starting in a few days and of course I am nervous, but trying desperately to not let it show.

I’m looking for success stories from parents whose kid started their first job and was thriving with it. Bonus points if your child works when school is in session and is able to manage both. Anyone have any to share? Anyone have any advice of pitfalls to be aware of?

Thanks!

[WYMom]

My kids are not old enough to say yet but my husband has ADHD and did well in school and working. He is never fully satisfied with his jobs but has no problem working.

[happydad]

My son (with ADHD) started working when he was 18, while he's taking college courses. It's definitely challenging at the beginning. After a few weeks, he was thinking about quitting the job. His manager convinced him to stay. The experience was very rewarding, as he learned many new skills, gained confidence, and enjoyed the financial independence. Recently he quit mainly because his schoolwork became too demanding, and he wanted to have more time to do other activities.

[BVBV]

My kids are not old enough to work, so I don’t have input from an ADHD perspective but I think it’s GREAT for high school kids to have a part-time job, whether it’s after school some days, weekends, or summer only. The people in my life that were given the choice NOT to work as teenagers have had work struggles as adults. I think building that work ethic when they are young is key, kudos to you!

[sabby6]

I just wanted to chime in here with this, he is going to love being in a restaurant setting, I say this from experience not only in that field but with a husband who has adhd that has thrived in it for the majority of his life. Its fast paced, and forever changing. I am so happy for him and wish him and you nothing but luck with this awesome new opportunity!

[skysoblue]

My son is 12. He has taken on little jobs (like pet sitting) for several years, of course with alot of support from us, at least initially. He is so meticulous in his duties and takes the responsibility very seriously. He has had multiple people call him to care for their pets just from word of mouth. This year he did spring cleanup for a neighbor up the road. The compliments we received for his attention to detail and hard work made us very proud but when we shared them with him, his confidence was over the top. I think your son will do great!

[Aspenanddusty]

I found that it gave my son (17 at the time) confidence that many of these kids lack. He was suddenly in a better mood and in turn more kind to others.