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Who said it was easy to be a mom?

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Who said it was easy to be a Mom? No one ever. The truth is that it is not easy at all and babies are not born with a manual. As children grow it gets more complex and each child has unique necessities and personalities, now imagine having multiple children each with different needs and requests, this gets more time consuming if one of this children has a special need. Don't let difficult days get you down because it is very easy to do, you are not perfect and no mother is, as long as you have love for your children and you provide love and good care for each of them you are doing well! Be kind to yourself as this is literally the hardest job in the world. There is not any down time because even when you are away at that dinner or at work you have them in your mind, and honestly there will never ever be a real brake from being a mother because everything you do is centered around them! After that child is born they will be your number one priority until your last breath. You are a super person, a care taker, a nurse, a counselor, a teacher, a guide and mentor of life not to mention all of the other roles you take on with this job, there is not any awards for achieving above and beyond in your tasks but there is a great reward when you see their smile then your aching body and exhaustion becomes all worth it because their happiness goes always with no exceptions before your own. So do not feel defeated because you had a rough day, you feel you are not doing well enough? Well DON'T because no one ever said that being a mother was easy. Be proud lady! you have the hardest but most rewarding job in the world.

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Thank you

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