Feel Like I am Careening towards a brick wall!

[KessFam]

New here, and SO thankful this community exists. I sometimes feel so isolated in our ADHD journey, but I am so happy this is here - we're really not alone! My wonderfully sweet and empathetic 7 year old was formally diagnosed almost 2 years ago. We started him on the Daytrana patch yesterday (he had previously been on Quillavant), and our wonderful psychiatrist keeps reminding us that this journey has no finish line, and these kiddos have a really hard time existing in a world that wasn't created for them. Parent/Teacher conferences are tonight, and after a very emotionally trying phone call from his teacher last night about all the "problems" they're having, I am feeling like, emotionally, I am careening into a brick wall. My son has multiple supports in place to assist, and one of the goals of his IEP is to over time, lessen the amount of support he needs. I had to gently remind the teacher that this new medication just started YESTERDAY, and it takes time to work. I need support and kind words, because this momma is beyond emotionally drained and exhausted, and nearly at a breaking point. Thanks for reading, everyone. SO happy this place is here. <3

[ucandoit]

Sounds like you are doing everything right and have all your bases covered. It's hard, I know. I think it's difficult for people, myself included, to truly understand the adhd mind. I've had teachers question whether or not my 9 year old REALLY needs extra help, or is she just wanting attention. She has had an IEP since kindergarten, sees a therapist and a psychiatrist and on meds. They are seeing the best part of her day. If they knew what it was like once her meds wear off and what we deal with at home they wouldn't be questioning this. I do try to make her own some of her behaviors. I can't let adhd and ocd be an excuse for everything. I am very supportive of her school and all they do, but remind teachers, when necessary, about the many aspects of her adhd. I am not familiar with the patch you are talking about? Please fill me in .Thanks

[BVBE]

You are not alone. At one point I was getting daily phone calls from the dean of students. It is a rough road. I often feel like I am not a strong enough parent to handle this and want to run away half the time and my son is only 6 years old. You are the best advocate for your son. Take some time for yourself to rejuvenate and rest. You got this.