Thank to all the replies here! You have all empowered me and really made me feel that I am not alone. We have taken the steps to help my son and we are now setting up his IEP plan for school. We are also getting him professional help outside of school for extra support. I have spent hours educating myself on ADHD and how I can help my son. My husband and I are feeling positive and ready to advocte for our son. We have found more patience with him too as we learn more. It will continue to be a process but we will do anything for our son. Thank you everyone for all the advice. God will see us through and any parent out there your best weapon to fight for your kids is to educate yourselves and never give up. Your kids need you.