Something wrong

[Theonewhocares]

I feel like something is wrong with me. My husband always makes me feel like there something wrong with me. Everything I do is wrong or not good enough. I never hear anything good. He's not a bad person but I strongly feel because of his past failures marriage he doesn't know how to handle a woman who genuinely cares. I have even asked God if something wrong because I don't feel happy in my marriage and its only been two years.

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There is nothing wrong with you no matter how many times your husband says so. It is more of an issue he has within himself.

I have been in the same shoes as you and have been told the same stuff resulting in feeling the same as you. I then had enough and stood up for myself telling my spouse “You really need to stop putting yourself down all the time. Whatever you tell me in ways which hurt me show me how much you are hurting as to am lost from within yourself”.

When they went in denial of such fact, it proved me right. As it will do the same for you.

It is not you, so don’t blame, doubt, or even allow any negativity to be brought upon you. You are the strong one here.

Keep your spirit high in knowing you are a special person. Just like everyone else. 😊😌

[hypercat54]

I wonder if he is a narcisist? This is something they often to do to make themselves feel better. Have a look online as there is lots of info on them and how to spot them. x

[Natsteveo in reply to hypercat54]

I thought exactly the same @hypercat54 I even think a few members of my family are like this too cx

[hypercat54 in reply to Natsteveo]

Oh dear not good. x

[Natsteveo in reply to hypercat54]

It’s not it’s not nice x