Missing my wife

[Waqasat33]

I love my wife now matter how imperfect we really are. She wants to end our relationship but I don't want to because I love her.

[loggerslot]

Hi there,

sorry to hear about your difficult situation. You can ask your wife if taking marriage counselling will help patch things up. I'm not married myself so i can't give in depth advice but hear her side of the story openly without interrupting her and understand why she feels the way she does. if she points faults at you for that way of feeling then please be open and understand why she said that and see how you can change that perspective she has.

All I know is that any relationship or marriage is a balancing act in that it works both ways to understand, respect and be reasonable towards each other. while you both need time apart as a break from each other (like a 9-5pm job) you also need time together (evenings/weekend/holidays). accepting each other for they are is important but behaviours and reactions also need to change to help achieve the balance in that single environment you both share.

Sorry if you feel i've not been much help but i hope something is there to move you in the right direction.

[Waqasat33]

It's a lot more to it then that.

[Waqasat33]

This was an arranged marriage done through someone who has an Islamic matrimonial agency where they arrange appointments for me to go and see girl and her family.

[Waqasat33]

I am a Muslim, and we don't relationship I.e boyfriend and girlfriend relationship because Islam does not allow to have an affairs with woman stranger. Does not allow male and female to have sex before marriage

[loggerslot]

I'm sorry but I'm not an expert in islamic marital issues.

I can only advise you either talk to her or contact the agency (if they are of any help) or get family involved to try and settle the dispute. otherwise if that's what she wants then you will have move on with your life and let her be happy.