I posted a while ago about other people’s opinions as it’s something I’m curious about. I am not remotely fussed if people notice my weightloss or not I just wonder why some say something and some don’t (I’m a psychology graduate- this stuff is in my nature😂).
Anyway, my husband had been losing weight too, he’s tall 6’ and is almost at his target of 12st 7lb which puts him in a healthy BMI. He’s had health problems recently and so wanted to get into shape. I’m super proud of him (and it’s helped me no end!).
However, my mum keeps saying things like ‘ooo he’ll look drawn if he loses anymore’ ‘he’s always looked slim anyway’ ‘he doesn’t want to be skinny’. She is not at all healthy herself by the way.
So it’s got in my head, what if me dieting has made him look awful (I think he looks great but I’m biased!)? Why is it all about looks? Why does my mum need to comment? Etc etc.
Thanks for reading, it’s maddening and fascinating and puzzling!