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My family just don't understand

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Having explained many times to my family and even giving my mum the information pack from the Thyroid UK website, my mum clearly still has no idea as I had this conversation today;

Her: Well where did you get this virus from?

Me: What virus?

Her: The one that's attacking your immune system

Me: Its my immune system that's attacking my body

Her: Well that doesn't make any sense

I give up.

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Mauds

Oh poor you no one understands us only those who are going through thyroid issues. Keep the chin up.

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Marz

Type - Hashimotos Letter - into the Search Box at the top of the page on the green bar and a letter will appear that you can give to your Mum....

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Fruitandnutcase in reply to Marz

I love those thyroid sufferers letters - they just say it all don't they.

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Marz in reply to Fruitandnutcase

:-)

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SJaggs in reply to Marz

Thanks. I'll give it a try. I suspect she'll take it as an insult that I used a letter to get through to her though!

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shawsAdministrator

This is more or less the same question asked of Dr Lowe. Go to the date October 4, 2005.

web.archive.org/web/2010103...

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SJaggs in reply to shaws

Identical situation pretty much. But my mum is a drama queen and likes to announce my illness at dinner parties!

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Caroline22

I know how you feel, it can be annoying. If I as much as yawn my mother or sister will say "is that your thyroid playing up again?" I have to laugh, you'd think it inconvenienced them and not me lol!!

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SJaggs in reply to Caroline22

If we've been out for the day I get asked if I need to go and have a nap before we do anything in the evening! Sometimes I do, but I refuse on principal!

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Ellie-Louise

Now I'm puzzled!

If it's the immune system that's attacking our body (I hadn't thought of it in that way before) and zinc supports the immune system, am I doing the wrong thing by taking a zinc and magnesium tablet every morning?

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HarryE in reply to Ellie-Louise

No, that's doing you good. It supports the immune system and helps it work better, instead of attacking your own tissues

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Ellie-Louise in reply to HarryE

I see, thanks Harry :) I had a horrible feeling that I was doing the opposite.

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wombatty

I used to have arguments with my husband on a regular basis about my continuing to need to take levothroid - and he has a PhD in chemistry! Our conversations went like this:

He: Why are you still taking this stuff? Your problem ought to be cured by now.

I: It doesn't get cured. My immune system's destroyed part of my thyroid gland so it doesn't make enough thyroxine. I have to take it for the rest of my life.

He: That's ridiculous. There's no reason to take a medicine for the rest of your life. If it doesn't fix the problem, then it's not doing you any good.

I: Diabetics take insulin all their lives because they don't make enough insulin. I need thyroxine because I don't make enough of it.

At this point he usually changed the subject or left the room. Eventually (after I'd run out of pills a few times) he realized I'm much more pleasant when I'm medicated. Now anytime I become crabby he asks whether I've been taking my thyroxine.

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HarryE in reply to wombatty

That's funny! I bet it taught him a lesson :-D

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SJaggs in reply to wombatty

Haha that's hilarious! Well not for you! That's a good comparison with diabetes, I think I'll start using that!

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SJaggs

Yes as soon as I start to explain anything she makes a face and says its all to scientific for her.its not, she just can't be bothered to listen to someone else speak. She does like the sound of her own voice!

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