Please don't get me on one of my bad days, I have a slight anger problem (I wonder why)...my Psychologist says I react like this when I am feeling vulnerable....I had to have my front teeth bridge removed and was waiting for another bridge/implant appointment, feeling very very vulnerable as front teeth are a big issue. I live in a very out of the way country area. No one comes here usually except the postman and he had been. I decided that I would attempt a little weeding in the front garden. I had been there no longer that a few minutes when a car draws up. Out gets a man who starts trying to sell me something, I was going to answer but then remembered the teeth so I kept my head down. He starts asking me if I want to buy aerial photographs, I didn't reply, then he starts asking me other stuff, I didn't reply. Then he says sarcastically "do you usually ignor people when they speak to you"! Oh, that was the red rag to me...I was instantly filled with utter fury, I didn't ask this arsehole to bother me and I didn't want to speak to him and now he had had the audacity to be rude on top. I went absolutely balistic, I won't tell you what I shouted it's far too rude but shouting I was, teeth forgotten, I ran toward the gate (which I normally can't do) waving my shovel with every intent to make contact, the idiot backed off still making derogatory remarks but as I advanced on him he knew I meant business and he jumped into his car and drove off with me taking a huge swipe which just missed the bumper. I obviously looked and sounded like some old demented hag who was completely nuts. I don't think that he will ever darken my doors again! This technique has also been used on Jehova's Witnesses with equally amazing effect. I hate bad days but they can have an amusing side!