I went to see a Dietician today and she was very happy with my diet and didn't see why I have been suffering but want to put me on the Fodmap diet but her colleague will need to be trained first - bring it on! I will let everyone know how I get on.
On another note, I have recently cut out Broccoli, Cauliflower and Grapes - I used to eat quite a lot of these things, and my IBS has been better than it was but I am still bloated.
Best of luck to everyone on this site, I hope that we all find some kind of cure in the end.