So we have RED for uh-oh....nope. Bad belly to follow.
We have AMBER for "okay -ish, can eat it sometimes, but not too much of and not for days on end."
And we have GREEN for "usually fine, easier on the gut, no real dramas when I eat this, but not much use during a flare up" (as if anything is!)
And everybody's food list is going to be different.
If you can eat ice cream, or bread, or chocolate, etc with no obvious damage done, then go for it. No point restricting foods or nice treats if you don't have to. The only time to maybe go without these might be during a Low Fodmap diet 6-8 week trial. Remember, even chocolate contains quite surprising nutrients if you check, or if you buy a decent one.
If someone else can eat something fine, it doesn't mean you can. If it's listed as Low Fodmap, it doesn't mean it suits you. Many low Fodmaps I can't eat. And a few high ones are kind to me.
And the weirdest thing is, that sometimes our safe food list can change...one way or the other. So safe foods can start to become "no" foods, and those we didn't trust, can become okay. We have to be flexible.
But sometimes there are foods that stay safe for a very long time. I have those staples.
And the operative word is often "sometimes."
It can help to make a really simple chart, magnetise it to the fridge, and highlight the foods in the colours.
And, what I learned is, it doesn't matter if it's a "healthy choice" or not. If YOU feel healthier for eating it, stick with that, but be ready to introduce healthier foods if possible.
Some food that is considered "unhealthy" (such as white basmati rice etc) actually isn't too bad on nutrients. But food additives/processed foods can be bad news, so try to cook simple foods from scratch.
Just passing on a few tips that I found out for myself.