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Lonely

MITCHMATCH
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REALLY REALLY WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A CHANCE TO MEET WITH ANY OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE INTERESTED FOR LUNCH OR A BEER GETTING LOST SCARED TO KEEP GOING WITH NO ONE TO FACE TO FACE TALK TO

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Have you felt like this since the COVID ? Are you in the USA? You sound young? I'm in UK. We cant just go to a bar now inside without booking a table. Can sit outside at a distance. It is very hard the way of living is not same anymore at present. Do you have any friends or family you talk to on virtual Zoom? If not there must be a community on line for people who are lonely?, meantime look after no 1 that's you as hard as it is. Do you have any hobbies. I dont which is why I focus on the negative too much. I end up watching TV a lot. Try getting out for a walk. Try not to stay in 4vwalkscall day . Stay in touch on here with people if you can.

MITCHMATCH
MITCHMATCH in reply to basten

YOU SOUND LIKE A SWEET HEART I HONESTLY TRY TO AMUSE MYSELF MY WHOLE CAREER WAS WORKING WITH

A-Z PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH CARE EVERYTHING ABOUT ME IS TOO JUST CHILL WITH ALL TO SAY I HAVE EXCELLED IN THIS IS ARROGANT FOR ME I HAVE ALL THE EDUCATION CRISIS PREVENTION ETC

I MOVED BACK TO MY HOME PROVINCE ALBERTA AFTER A 17 YEAR LIFE IN VANCOUVER IN A COUPLE MONTHS MY LIFE CHANGED MOM PASSED MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER AT THE TIME AND I REALIZED WE WERE BETTER FRIENDS THAN ANYTHING I KNOW THIS MUST SOUND LIKE A COUNTRY SONG ANYWAY HAD NO INCOME APPLIED FOR SOCIAL SERVICES WAS DIAGNOSED AS A SEVERELY DEPRESSED PERSON AND PUT ON DISABILITY AND I HAVE HAD MY BOUTS WITH THIS I AM NOW LOST FOR WORDS

basten
basten in reply to MITCHMATCH

Ah bless you. Losing someone can take a long time to get over but you lost 2cwhich is even harder. You are a good person working in the career that you had. I hope they have given you a decent anti depressant as for me they really helped. You seem to have had a lot of experience and its not arrogant at all to say you excelled That's giving yourself a pat on the back and saying well done me. If you dont say that who will. I'm hoping you will try to talk with someone on line or by phone if you can to say how you're feeling. Yes things are really tough at the moment. Not seeing anyone for a chat and beer is hard. I pray things will get better for you and somehow you will chat to people soon . Keep going. I have God in my life which has helped in one way

MITCHMATCH
MITCHMATCH in reply to basten

YOU ARE DEFINITELY A BEAUTIFUL PERSON I AM 49 FEELS STRANGE AT THE DENTIST HAVING MY TEETH CLEANED AND I SAID TO MY DENTIST SORRY I HAVE SO MANY TEETH SHOULD I GET MY WISDOM TEETH PULLED HER REPLY BACK AT A CERTAIN AGE WE DO NOT RECOMMEND IT CAME HOME SHOWERED WROTE AND WROTE MY TRAVELS MY CAREER ALL MY 11 NEPHEWS NAMES BIRTHDAYS THEIR CHILDRENS NAMES MY TWO NIECES SAME MY NEPHEW AND HIS LOVE JUST HAD A BABY GIRL TWO DAYS AGO I HAVE NO CHILDREN I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHT YUP I AM OF A CERTAIN AGE THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WORDS MADE MY DAY

basten
basten in reply to MITCHMATCH

Your welcome. Dont apologise ever for having a full set of teeth. I've lost most of my top ones and false teeth are bloody awful!!! I miss mine. Look after them and theyll last you a long time. Well at least you went out AND showered. Some days I dont bother!!! Wow so many nephews and nieces and congrats on their new baby. You seem to have kept occupied. My daughter is 45 this year single and no children and shes going down a route which may help. She desperately wants a family. Never met the right guy and as you get older it gets harder. She is past the stage of night clubs etc. Would like someone who wants to go places with her. My son is 42 and gay so no kids there!! Perhaps you might meet someone whose got kids and single and they will love you!!

It will get better. It always does....

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