Hello ladies I tried to stay out of this kerfuffle, but there seems to be a negative wave of hurt feelings, and I think to myself: what a waste.
We are all hurting, one way or another, and people in pain say words that are not meant to hurt others, but rather an expression of their own frustration & helplessness.
I don't know Sandra, but I hope that she reads my current post because I herewith am appealing to you:
It is in your hands to put an end to it, and I implore you to come back and forgive. Obviously many members love you and appreciate you, and I read one apology a gentleman wrote to you, so you are obviously precious, hopefully gracious enough to say: you know what, life is a deadly disease, let's not waste time being hurt over some people's expression of their own fear, confusion and panic.
I am hereby appealing to you: would you put an end to this unnecessary, painful divide? Seems like only you can.
I salute you,
Dully