I cannot define my thoughts round Sexuality . I have always been with guys . I cannot think why now I question or joke I should date a lady cannot explain then I questioned sexuality generally any one have any thoughts how they would define?
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I have always been with men, although actually, have spent more time not in relationships at all. Completely by choice, I haven’t actively sort many relationships because I often think I don’t really like men/have had some bad experiences.
I’ve pondered sometimes whether I am attracted to women. I always conclude I’m not and that my curiosity is more about not liking men rather than liking women, if that makes any sense.
I have briefly looked at some of your other posts and wonder whether some of your feelings might stem from what you’ve experienced rather than actually being about sexuality?
If you decide you are actually attracted to women, that’s ok too. Maybe you are attracted to both men and women. Sometimes it’s reassuring to be able to give how you feel a definitive ‘label’ so to speak but you don’t have to. It’s ok to just feel how you feel and explore it.
Thank you for your message. This could be possible but how do you mean might stem from what you’ve experienced ?
I think now I have classed judgments on guys maybe that is where my joke comes from
Only you can know for sure how you feel and maybe where the thoughts come from. I looked at your previous post before this one and can see you’ve had some negative sexual experiences with men which might affect how you feel about men generally. I know that is certainly the case for me personally.
It’s ok to question your sexuality, for any reason, even if you don’t fully understand why.
I love my rock guy no doubts. I do not get my thoughts
If you are curious then why not give it a try? You may like it you may not. There’s only one way to find out. You may like both. I’m happily married been for 11 years to my wife but I like looking at men’s bits. I wouldn’t act on it because I love my wife to bits. She knows I like looking too.
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Not sure it is good to give a try when you have a rock guy?
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Sorry what is a rock guy?
Mia898 in reply to
Rock a guy who is always there. I joke he is rock I am crystal
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Ok. I’m sorry I didn’t know you were in a relationship. I wouldn’t encourage anyone to cheat on their partner. I was just saying that if you were curious and single then don’t worry what others think just give it a try. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
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We are dating . Even so I do not want anyone else 
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