I’m curious and have another male cousin my age, and I kinda wanna see if he does it but idk how to like ask him without being blunt. Have you ever done this?
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Have you ever talked about masturbation or jerking off with a family member?
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No never with another guy or anyone in fact, although I’d like to, don’t know if I could....
Mia898• in reply to
Maybe just ask if you want to . I get it maybe hard for you !
Firstly I am female but just be blunt and ask your cousin take it from the females all of us ask questions between ourselves we over share so I do not see why you cannot be blunt . If you do not ask you will never get an answer all the females ask the weirdest questions and we overshare . Good luck just ask .
I wouldn't ever talk about that kind of things with a family member because I simply wouldn't feel confortable as honest as I am with it. However, I do discuss this with friends.. Tbh, I wish they could join me but I wouldn't do it on the phone as they would think that.
I'm lucky to have a very open family, knew about masturbation growing up having older brothers.
ThorskinsHammer• in reply to
Yeah when you’re stuck sharing a room with brothers this is kind of inevitable, especially when you’re close in age, it’s just a natural part of life and you get over it
I kinda like that idea. I think experimenting with someone you trust is the best.
Sounds like fun....
He might like talking about it as well 👍
Yes I have - he was fine about it!
Jmerrick22• in reply to
IM thinking watch a porno together if possible then start saying something like If I was home I’d be taking care of business and go from there
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That’s how it pretty much started with us. Just watched a porno and I “joked” about wanting to have a wank. One thing led to another - he was open to the conversation and even jerked off together. Only happened once and don’t think it would again but was great to experience that!
UncutBoy• in reply to
Sounds good 😉
Garrett0606• in reply to
When in our early teens An older brother and I shared a bedroom. One night he asked me to swap blow jobs. We did it infrequently a few times over the years until about age 14 or 15 and we started going with girls. Also swapped blow jobs and jerked occasionally with a couple of neighbor boys between ages 13 and 15. We looked at female porn as a stimulus (or as an excuse) and then do it. We were shy about the oral sex, and would count out the seconds to 15 while doing it. We were afraid to think that we would appear queer to each other if we did it very long. However we would then jerk off to female porn. and sometimes even jerk each other off. It just seemed to stop at about age 15. I think it was a part of growing up.
I did the same when I was younger, with friends since I didn't have a brother. There were a couple of us all close in age. We all enjoyed giving each other oral. Stopped when high school started.
Thanks Bob!
Hello, I am 26
Intriuging proposition. Ask him and see what happens
This is my favorite quote.
If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward you're always in the same place." By Nora Roberts
I masturbated in front of my (female) cousin a few times when we were teenagers. She was a year older than me. If I’m honest I can’t really remember how it started but that sort of exploration is just something that kids do and nothing to be ashamed about. She didn’t reciprocate in quite the same way although there was some level of mutual exploration of each other’s bodies that went on, and we asked each other a lot of questions. We still have a great relationship and it’s not something that either of us feel the need to mention. I doubt she even thinks about it more than 30 years later.
Only you will know your cousin well enough to be sure if it’s a good idea to ask, but I would do just that - ask. If he’s a good friend then he won’t be offended but he still may not want to discuss it. You’re only proposing an exchange of views and ideas, not suggesting you get physical with each other.
Yeah I’d be interested to hear more about this
Hey Bob, been trying to send you messages, check out your inbox when you get the chance
No worries it appears you’ve messaged me so we can pick it up there
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