I am having sex 7-9 times per month with my partner and I have come to feel unattractive and unsexy to him. I also feel like that's why we have never gotten pregnant. I feel so pathetic about it.
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Skimpy sex life.
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I hope you don't mind me saying that it's probably a blessing you guys haven't fallen pregnant. It doesn't sound like a healthy environment to introduce a child into.
Prior to considering your partner's thoughts about you, I'd highly recommend you alter your thoughts about yourself. I strongly believe that we are treated the way we deem worthy. Therefore feel attractive and sexy, love yourself (fawls and all) and reap the rewards. Especially in the bedroom. It will make you more confident and uninhibited which are both attributes that will lead to heightened attraction and sexiness on both your part. Failing that maybe it's time you reconciled to the fact that maybe you're not quite the right fit (square peg...round whole...and all that jazz!)
Wishing you all the best! X