My love and thoughts are with you both and your family as you move through these last few days. I am sure that he is loving having you with him even if it is so difficult for you. AliBee xx
Hello Northstar. I am very sorry for what you and your husband are going through. You sound so like me. You have all my sympathy as you travel this very hard road.
I was very glad to bring my sweetheart home after a respite stay that sent him spiraling down. (Overreaction to sleep meds we were trying to get right.) I also knew the (excellent, caring staff) didn’t know and were underestimating my sweetheart. There were some good, brief periods of rallies in the weeks that followed, and he even ate pretty normally again for a while. But one day he decided to refuse food and water. He died 10 days later.
For what it’s worth:
I am glad I brought him home. I do wish you strength with that.
I wish I had played more music for him. I wish I had worried less about his medications.
Don’t feel you need to push food. Toward the end the body doesn’t process it well and doesn’t want it. It’s hard because feeding is from infancy how we show love.
Love matters.
Do please try to care for yourself - a little at least. Please stay in touch
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