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So we wer told 2 weeks ago by doctor dad had weeks not months left. And yesterday a pallative consultant came to see dad. Lovely man. He says 1 week but days wouldnt surprise him....we are all in this unreal place and mum is totally heartbroken. But hospice at home have started coming in and mum feels releived. She also had a priest out today.....after yrs of this ilness i still cant beleive its coming to an end. I cherish the man that is my dad. I was widowed young and he was the only other man in my life. Now hes going...😒 please god when the time comes make it peacefull . My thought to everyone going through this xxxx

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easterncedar

I hope your prayers are answered, and your father finds peace. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this sad time. Love, Ec

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abirke

I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord which made heaven and earth. . Psalm 121:1,2

As a shepherd seeketh out his flock in the day that he is among his sheep that are scattered; so will I seek out my sheep; and will deliver them out of all places where they have been scattered in the cloudy and dark day. . Ezekial 34:12

Finally, brethren, farewell, be perfect, of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you. . II Corinthians 13:11

Days hours weeks we do not know. The only thing we are assured of is eternity....May your dad rest in peace. May you be comforted in the memories.

AVB

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NannaB

My prayer for your dad is the same as yours and for you and your mum I pray you know that special peace that only He can give at this very difficult time.

Sending you a big hug.

X

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gel68

Thanku all so much xxxx

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Christine47

Our prayers to you and your parents. c47

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Kevin_1

Gel68

Waiting for a great loss and the moments matter.

It's hard.

Hold on to the love. It will be your boat on these seas.

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Yvonneandgeorge

Also our prayers go out to you and all your family, sending you a big hug Yvonne xxxxx

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Heady

Sending hugs and lots of love and this trying time.

Lots of love

Heady

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showaddy

Thinking of you all at this time. I really hope your dad passes easily without hurt or pain. I can relate to what you mean as my dad suffered till the end then I thanked god that he had a 'good' passing, which even now helps with the loss. Prayers and love to you all. Love Pauline xx

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gel68

Thanku..all of u..such lovely people. So glad I had all ur insight and experience to draw on xxxxx

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Debbieann

Apologies to those whe are, but I'm struggling with anything God. But sending you love and hugs xx

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Baruli

Thoughts and prayers are with your family at this grievous time.. May God surround you all with His perfect peace xxx

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Spiralsparkle

Sending you all peaceful energy and a gentle journey for your Dad x

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Doglinton

Thinking of you all at this sad time. Hope all goes peacefully.

Love, Jean x

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millywigg2

Keep strong my thoughts are with you xxx

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Amilazy

Prayer and consolation to you and hope she departs peacefully.

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psplife

Prayers for you and your family.

Huge hug,

Nikkie

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Noella21

Prayers for you and your family. May you all find peace amidst this difficult time. God bless you and keep you strong lean on Him and each other.

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Katiebow

Thinking of you, stay strong and be proud that you did everything you could to help him along this arduous road.

Love Kate xx

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gel68

Dad is hanging on...hes had days of breathing then not breating. Hes been in a coma like state but yesterday he opened his eyes to respond to us as best he could. Not for long but guess hes saying "im still here " then back to sleep he goes. Hisceyes are all ways half open when he sleeps day 4 . This is so hard my poor dad 😒😒 xx

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Zsha

stay strong, my prayers for you and your family.. May his journey be a peaceful one..

Sending you a big hug

Much love,

Zsha

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goldcap

G, I know how difficult this must be for all of you right now. It does feel surreal doesn't it? Almost never the way you expected it. We went through this with my mom when she passed (non PSP-stroke) away peacefully at home. Thank God you have help and support and I hope he passes peacefully and comfortably with all of you by his side.

XX Jayne

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