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Hubby died at home, peacefully in his sleep.

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jillannf6

hi maddys

so sorry to hear of yr husbands dying - he is now free of this PSP and now you need2 take care of yourself

lol Jill

PSP person in the UIK

hugs and xxX 2 you

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NannaB

Oh Maddy, we all know it will happen but it is still so hard. It's a blessing your dear hubby left peacefully in his sleep and PSP has gone forever.

You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Love Nanna B

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jzygirl

Thinking of you at this sad time. Hope you both find some peace now hugs to you Janex

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ritak

Dear Maddy,

May his soul rest in peace and am glad that the end was peaceful. It is really hard on the family and I wish you all the strength to take you through this time.

Blessings and love,

Rita

Hi Maddy

So sorry to hear of the loss of your hubby. I'm glad he was at home and that he passed away peacefully. It will be a hard time for you and your family, so my prayers are with you.

Please take care and take some comfort in the fact he is now at rest.

T.

So sorry you must be shattered and empty,have faith and share how you feelx

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Fadwa

Dear maddy. I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of hubby I know how difficult this must be for you , you are in my thoughts and prayers may godbless you and your family during this time and always. Fadwa

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Lieve

Dear Maddy - So sorry for your loss - I know you must miss him terribly but you won't miss the misery PSP brought into your lives. Be kind to yourself and know that we are all thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Lieve

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zjillian

I am so sorry for your loss. It is a terrible sorrow to lose your husband and I send you my love and hugs,

Jill

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MaddyS

Thank you all for your kind thoughts. Maddy

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Joandbear

dear Maddy, so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers. Nothing more to say, just sending love and many blessings. He is done suffering.

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jimandsharynp

Maddy, So sorry to hear of your loss. Now your caregiving days are not over. Now you need to turn your caregiving on yourself. He would want it that way. Hugs, Jimbo

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MaddyS

Thanks Jimbo. Howard you getting on with life?

I'm trying to get back to normal life, quite tricky at the moment, find it strange that Im now able to leave the house whenever I want to, no need to make arrangements for hubby first.

Take care, maddy

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goldcap in reply to MaddyS

Maddy, I am sorry your husband has passed but grateful he did so peacefully. The days ahead will seem strange at best. Who are you now that you are not his caregiver? It will take awhile for it all to really sink in. Be kind and compassionate to yourself as you would to a dear friend who had lost a loved one. And look for little signs in the coming days ahead-you will feel traces of his love all around you.

Take care,

Big hugs,

GC

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wifemo

Dear Maddy -

So glad you were able to care for hubby at home - always remember you did your best and he will have known and been grateful to you for that.

Be prepared for it to take a year or so before you begin to feel able to move on but those precious memories of the good times will never leave you.

Look after yourself.

Mo

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Heady

Hi Maddy, really sorry to hear that your husband has died. I've been with out Internet, so have only just picked up the news.

Please, please remember our saying "one day at a time" it's even more important now. This is the final hurdle that PSP will throw at you. You have managed all the others, YOU will get over this one as well. BUT, you have to do it at YOUR pace, nobody else's. Only you can determine that, yes, of course you will need help, please don't refuse any that is offered.

Sending you lots of love and hugs.

Lots of love

Heady

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MaddyS

Hi Heady

Many thanks for your kind words. At the moment I'm deep in paperwork, once it's all sorted my " new" life will start. As you said, it will take time to adjust.

Take care, maddy

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Heady

Hi Maddy, from what I know of paperwork, it will take ages. Keep patient, remember, one day at a time. It does not have to all be done today, tomorrow, or next week will do fine!!!

Lots of love

Heady

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MaddyS in reply to Heady

Very true. Spending a lot of time waiting on the phone.

Maddy

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jillannf6

hi maddyS

how r you now???

one month on since ur husband died..

sorry to be blunt but i am from yorkshire and that is how we are there..

lolJIll

hugs and xx to you and your family

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MaddyS in reply to jillannf6

Hi Jill

Thank you for your message. I'm doing reasonably well, have a lot of support from family and friends, which is very wellcome. I miss hubby but know that he is now free of this cruel PSP.

Jill, how are you doing? Not too many falls I hope. Please take care.

Love and hugs, maddy xx

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