I am 56, the last couple of years my PSA kept going up. I scheduled a biopsy for January 5th 2022. I got my test results of the biopsy on January 17th, 2022. A nurse called me and said "the biopsy was group 1 prostate cancer, will discuss with you further on follow-up. This is the lowest aggressiveness". At the time this didn't seem to me that I should be concerned so I didn't do any research on the subject. I had 2 places on the biopsy: B. Prostate, right base, needle biopsy - Prostate carcinoma, Grade Group 1 (Gleason 3+3) involving 5% of the needle biopsy and D. Prostate, right lateral base, needle biopsy - atypical small acinar proliferation (ASAP) suspicious for carcinoma. I had my follow up consultation with my urologist on the 28th.
The consultation was a complete blur to me, I'm glad my wife went so she could fill in the blanks. He started off by telling me about the Gleason grading of 3+3=6 and 5+5=10 and there used to be a different grading system, at this time I am thinking WTF, I don't know what any of this means!
Now the Dr starts explaining what treatment he recommends Robotic Assisted Laparoscopic Radical Prostatectomy (RALP) and that he would be doing the procedure. My wife helped me remember this. He explained all of the side effects of RALP and I remember telling him that I didn't like any of the side effects.
My brother in-law told me to ask about Brachytherapy (internal radiation), at the time I didn't know what it was called so I asked about radiation pellets inserted in the prostate. He told me that this wasn't used that much anymore. After doing some research, it appears that this type of radiation is still being done. My wife seemed to feel like the urologist was kind of pushing RALP. He informed us that if you do RALP first then if that doesn't get it all then I could do radiation and hormone therapy.
During the 2 weeks after the diagnosis I went through the first four stages of "The Five Stages of Grief", (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression) and then Acceptance.
I have a consultation with an oncologist in March, in the meantime I am doing research to help me determine my best options.