the " Magic " of pheromones'

[pjd55d]

Hi men.

I have been thinking and wondering about this for awhile. I am a gay man and have been active since my mid-teen years ( 74 now). I know that the visual is usually important for attraction - but the continuum of what is attractive is constantly changing - though a constant is a pretty young man. The thing that I am interested in is, the pheromonal attraction of another man which at times supersedes physical criteria. The term " he's hot " best describes the experience regardless of looks or body type. I know I have had a lot of experience on either side throughout my life.

What I am wondering is - for anyone on ADT, thoughts or experience with a loss of that attraction from other men. I know, age plays an important part, but after the chit chat, and photo exchange, and meet up, and a hook-up is happening, quite often I experience: " he's not hungry - or hot " and though many of the guys are nice guys and there is some visiting and camaraderie, and they often come back for more, there is often the sense of " he is not hungry or HOT for me " and I wonder if the lack of pheromones is sending a signal.

input or thoughts would be appreciated

Best to all

P

[Tall_Allen]

Did you mean to post this on the gay forum?

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[pjd55d in reply to Tall_Allen]

isn't THIS the gay forum ?

[Tall_Allen in reply to pjd55d]

no. Look at the sign on the door.

[pjd55d in reply to Tall_Allen]

I have no idea what " look at the sing on the door " might mean - if this is not the gay forum what is it ?

[pjd55d in reply to Tall_Allen]

sign

[Tall_Allen in reply to pjd55d]

I just gave you the link

[JamesHChi]

It would be great to post that link here too. Thanks.