un sure wheather or not to try for # 4

[upthedubs]

i have 3 wounderful children my partner wants to try for our 4th & final baby. he works im a stay at home mother. we always said we'd have 4 but in 2010 i lost a baby at 28 weeks was in a crash & the doctors did everything thy could but now am unsure but dont want to dine him of pour plans please help.

[minime61]

My goodness it is completely understandable why you feel unsure whether you want to try again. Have you tried explaining to him exactly how you feel? I don;t know how old you are but do you have time to wait another year and then make a joint decision then? Maybe it's just that you are not ready. It has taken 3 and a half years since our baby was stillborn to want to try again.

Good luck - it is so hard when you and your partner don't agree on when/how many x

[upthedubs]

thanks minim61 for replying im 35 soo sorry for your loss. were normally agree on most but this is just soo hard for me to decide