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WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY

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HELLO LOVELY PEOPLE

Have been married for 4years now and my son is 3 years old and am 29 almost 30, would want to have my second child now but hubby want us to wait for a while for things to get much better even though we dont lack anything now , we both working and i think am aging.. had my first child when i was 26. How do i convince him cos i want to have all my kids at a young age.

he has my flo chart and knows when am safe so he is always careful ...

i need help please

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Blossoming19

Speak to your husband is the first thing, but if he still doesn't have a change of heart it is important to respect his wishes, as that is his right. X

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KUUKUA in reply toBlossoming19

thanks for this .. but we have spoken about it severally

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Bakingcupcake

I agree with Blossoming19..but I find it odd he has your flowchart...I find that a bit controlling but then my husband and I trust each other, it sounds like he doesn't trust you?? But I wouldn't want a big age gap between children so maybe mention that to him too

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KUUKUA in reply toBakingcupcake

we have deep trust ,,but had issues on my phone and decided to do it on his

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Bakingcupcake in reply toKUUKUA

Just the way your post was written about him having your flowchart makes it sound a bit off...but he has said he wants to wait a while...you need to discuss with him

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KUUKUA in reply toBakingcupcake

thanks for your words .. will try my best .. thanks

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Octoberbaby2019

I'd ask how long he wants to wait and what his reason is. I'd also be straight up and ask him if he wants to have a second child. If he does great just need to understand what his concerns are. If also remind him the older you both get it might not be straight away you conceive and may take over a year or longer and as someone else mentioned age gap between kids will become bigger and bigger.

I think main thing is to find out his concerns.

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