Desperate for a baby

[Bluelady-sing]

Desperate for a baby

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Hi Pumpkins

You may get more support from Fertility Network. That's where most of us ladies received support whilst going through the painful and long journey of ttc.

How did it go with your dr last month? Do you have test results? How long have you been ttc? Usually for best support it is easier for people to support if you write down some information about you. For example, the above information. It doesn't need to be personal. But some people may be at similar stages or have gone through similar experiences and therefore able to share which can give you comfort and hope as well as perhaps guidance as to what has worked.

Wishing you all the best xx

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Hidden]

I went to Dr had day 21 bloods. Wish me luck

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Good luck pumpkins. Hopefully the dr explained that this is the start of the fertility investigations. Hopefully they can find something that will explain. Most people do go on to have unexplained infertility or premature ovarian failure (basically a lack of eggs). This results in a waiting list to get referred for ivf. Depending on the area you live, your age and how long you have been trying for, it can take 12 months or more to have that referral.

Fingers crossed all is ok.

I have noticed that you are on a few of the forums here. Perhaps speak with your dr about anxiety reducing activities you might be able to do. Stress can be the number 1 cause of failure to get pregnant. Our bodies and minds are very complex machines, highly evolved but quite sensitive to even small changes.

Wishing you all the best. And do have a look at the fertility network on here. It may be much better for any questions you have on your fertility journey.

Here's hoping you get the results you pray for soon xx

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Are you back in a relationship with someone? I know this an ongoing thing with yourself from previous posts.