Broke

My cousin is pregnant I knew this was her first month trying, So I just texted my friend to ask if she'd mentioned and she is. I am happy for her but this has broke me today I'm at work and had to go have a cry in the toilets, I shouldnt have asked while Im at work. Happy for her but feel shit for me I dont want to feel like this.

[kt_11]

Really sorry you’re having to deal with this just at the moment. Not sure there’s anything I can say but just wanted you to know someone was listening & thinking of you x

[Kt19]

Oh hunni big hugs your going to be upset can’t you take a bit of time off work or do you find it easier to be there to take your mind off things whilst your there. Xx

[Hidden]

Thanks xxx I’m ok pulled myself together lol for now.

[Maltr]

Bless you. I found out my sister was pregnant after one of my miscarriages. Although you are happy for them, you are desperately sad for yourself and your baby in heaven. Thinking of you. Remember, you never forget, but things do get easier. Give yourself time. Xxxx

[Hidden]

That’s exactly it, I’m at feeling sorry for myself and my partner that he might never have kids with me.

[McrLass]

Don’t be harsh on yourself, no judgement here.

It’s so hard isn’t it? In the same week I found out I’d miscarried, I overheard a girl at work announce her pregnancy, exactly the same date along as I was. I don’t know her, but I’ve had to watch this beautiful young girl blossom with a pregnancy bump and a seemingly perfect pregnancy.

I keep telling myself that those not so kind feelings don’t make me a bad person and I’d never wish heartbreak on anyone.

I’m sure you’re the same, it’s just very hard, stay strong xx

[Hidden]

It is hard it’s usually when I’m alone overthinking things I get upset.

[Claire2225]

Hey Hun I feel your pain we where trying for ten years from the age of 23, 3 failed rounds of ivf after the last round of ivf and feeling like my whole world has slipped from under our feet we found out we were pregnant naturally don’t give up try keep strong I have now got a 1year old and a 8week old 😘😘😘

[Hidden]

I love my cousin and the friend who told me we’ve all been through tough times together the 3 of us. I want to tell my cousin that I know and that I’m happy for her so it’s not weird or uncomfortable for her.

[Claire2225 in reply to Hidden]

You will in your own time, when I just found out my 2nd ivf has failed my brother and his mrs has a baby I couldn’t even bring myself to meet him at the time I was sobbing my heart out xxx

[Hidden]

Aww I bet that was hard for you.

I’ll be fine it’s just raw right now but I have to say my 1st mc I cried for 6 months especially when af arrived. I feel abit different this time I think I was better prepared emotionally after the initial shock. I hope my partner is ok he does bottle up his emotions and then gets really down, I don’t think he knows how to deal with me when I’m randomly weeping either seem to go hide. Bless him.

[kirstyblue]

I know exactly how you feel. A week ago, my sister told me she is pregnant. She came off the pill a month ago. I have been ttc for 2-2/12 years and just started my first round of ivf.

I felt complete mix emotions. First thing I did when I got off FaceTime to her (she lives about 7 hrs away from me) was break down and cry. I am finally just starting to get excited about it. Now I’ve officially started my ivf treatment I’m focusing on that and just praying it works and I will be months behind her 🤞

It is extremely difficult and I see her this weekend for the first time since I found out so not sure how I will feel actually seeing her.

How long have you been ttc for? Xx

[Hidden]

I have 2 older kids 12 & 10 to my ex husband. My partner has none he’s younger than me I’m 38. I came of bc last May so started in June was preg by sept miscarried in Nov at 12w. Started trying in Jan got preg in May lost this one at 12 no bleeding or anything 😢