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Feathered Friends No. 2

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This is Patchy, another one of my many special feathered friends! He, like Jimmy the Jackdaw if you saw that post, also hopped back from a rather traumatic experience.

This time last year my partner came home to find him lying in the road outside our driveway. He was in a bad way. He picked him up but then turned round and saw a female standing in complete shock in our garden, so he called me, I took Patchy while he picked up the female. We couldn’t leave them there because of the cats.

Minutes later a man appeared, quite upset, and told us they had flown out in front of his car and gone into the windscreen.

We put them both in a warm ventilated box in a quiet room with the window opened so they could still hear their chums outside, we were confident the female, now named Lucky, would recover, but with poor Patchy it was looking very doubtful.

A while passed, with careful checks, and the female was moving around so we took the box outside, opened the lid and sure enough, out she hopped, in no hurry to fly away, she just stood looking at us for a while. All was fine, we watched her go off calmly. Poor Patchy was flat out with his wings stretched. We took him back in.

It seemed like ages and we’d all but given up when we heard movement. He was ok! We released him and he went to hide in a shrub where I watched through binoculars. The next day we had visits from both of them, it was lovely! They continued to visit until Billy, our Blackbird ‘in residence ‘ chased them off but they still managed to sneak past when he wasn’t looking! Still do and are, in fact, out there as I write, 2 of the 20 or so currently fighting to establish territories.

We’ve witnessed many incredible acts of endurance and amazing resilience shown despite horrendous injuries from our birds. They can have quite tough little lives, and to see some hobble around with a broken leg, or others, still battling on despite having been half plucked and mauled by the Hawk, can be quite humbling!

I simply adore all ‘my’ birdies, couldn’t be without them. They eat us out of house and home but they’re so very much worth it, providing me with hours upon hours of entertainment!

I haven’t been able to get out to actually go bird watching for a long time due to my health but my bedroom is like my very own hide, looking out to the bird tables and a small river where we can also see at times Heron, Kingfisher, Dipper and Grey Wagtail. Also our regular Mallards.

We have all the usual, Coal, Blue, Great and Longtail Tits, Robins, Thrush, Sparrows, Dunnocks, Blackcaps, Chaffinches, Goldcrests, Goldfinches, Bullfinch, Starlings, Collared Doves, Wood Pidgeons, and all the Corvids, en masse. Practically have our own Starling murmuration at times, the amount we have! In the Springtime we have a Common Gull pair who demand to be fed on my windowsill whenever they knock! And we have Sparrowhawk, with whom we have a very love/hate relationship with, given the fact, under any other circumstances , I ‘d be completely thrilled to watch any bird of prey, but when they’re devouring my ‘friends’, a few feet in front of me, not so at all!

They are all beautiful and have unique, funny little ‘personalities’ but I do have a special fondness and attachment to my Blackbirds. Right now we have about 20, some practicing their songs as I write, but this will change pretty soon when territories are re-established.

The Seasons for me are heralded by the comings and goings, and changing behaviours of the birds and I cannot wait for Spring to fully take its hold, as with it will bring yet more visitors and the yearly complete chaos at the bird tables, demandings at my window, and, of course, all the new arrivals. We have become known as a Creche and all the birds leave their babies off for the day! It will bring both heartache and joy, as we watch the fledglings grow up, learn to fend for themselves, have their little squabbles etc. ,but inevitably there will be sad times too, when some succumb to illness, break wings, legs or feet , or are taken by Hawky or Catty.

My feathered friends have helped me so much through lock downs and through many other tough times as well, and I, for one, think they are amazing!

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I loved reading your post and understand the pleasure you get from having such a lovely relationship with your birds. Its the time of the year when they start looking for a partner and building nests. Lke you I will be enjoying feeding and watching them in my garden.

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Niao in reply to RoadRunner44

😊 Thank you! They’re brilliant aren't they! A lot if ours are very monogamous, and strangely some who would usually part after Summer stay together through Autumn and Winter too, they really seem to enjoy each other's company! Xxx

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Patchy is very lucky to be one of "your" birds! I know exactly what you mean about having a garden full of feathered friends and following their antics through the seasons. It is entertaining and reassuring in that nature carries on in spite of everything! You have a huge amount of birds in your garden, where do you live? They obviously know which side their bread is buttered!!I have a mixed hedge (hawthorn, holly, box, privet....), which is like a block of flats for sparrows! They are highly entertaining but what a racket just outside my bedroom window - I wouldn't have it any other way! I have a couple of collared doves who come to my call, as they used to wait on my washing line for food from their mum when they were fledging and got used to me.

Maybe you could post a picture of any Patchy/ Lucky offspring?! xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

Thank you! It is indeed so reassuring, and hugely entertaining! I live by a small river, surrounded by many good bird friendly shrubs and trees. I adore watching the Sparrows, especially feeding their babies. Collared Doves are one of my favourites, we have about 50 of them coming, all in different smaller groups. Some of them are hysterical, I call them the King Fu fighters as for something so peaceful and serene looking, they can really pack a punch, or a wing slap, or a kick when the mood takes them! I will try and get some offspring photos this year, I did post about one a while back, Jimmy 'our' baby Jackdaw who was abandoned by his parents. 😊 Xxx

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leo60 in reply to Niao

Perfect environment for birds then! Jackdaws are so intelligent! Is Jimmy still about? There was a boy at school who's Jackdaw used to attend with him! He would sit on the windowsill waiting for break or home time. He wasn't very patient though and would peck at the window loudly if he was bored!! 😂 xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

😊😁 Awww! I think Jimmy is still visiting, there are so many now but I think he's the one that comes and sits on a perch just staring at us. I speak to him and call him Jimmy and he seems to like it! They have remarkable intelligence, and can also be very moody! Xxx

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leo60 in reply to Niao

I can just see you going into the garden and being surrounded by all the birds, each of them waiting to be spoken to by name!😂😘😘 xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

😁😂😂 Yep,a sight to behold for sure! Unfortunately, with our memories, we often forget what it is we've called some, and then we get a few miffed looks! I think the neighbours think we're bonkers, probably not far wrong! 😁 Xxx

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When I had chickens I would be chatting away to them completely oblivious to the fact that you can hear through hedges! I was “the mad chicken lady “!! 😂😂😂 xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

😁😆😆 I love that!! I've always wanted Chickens , I took care of one for a friend once and she was a sweetheart! If I were rich I'd buy a little place in the country surrounded by acres of land, then I could have Chickens, Geese, Ducks etc. , and billions of Doggies, Cats, Donkeys, Goats, Pigs and basically everything! And I could chat away to them to my heart's content!

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leo60 in reply to Niao

My daughter and I were just on the verge of asking my dad for some help to buy just that (well a couple of acres!), in Devon or there abouts!! I will need her help in the years to come and it’s all so expensive here in Sussex. Unfortunately he had three major seizures a couple of weeks ago so we can’t really ask him now! He is fine, seems to bounce back from them and anything else thrown his way! He will probably outlive me!! Chickens are such characters and very affectionate, I miss mine xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

That would be amazing indeed! Really sorry your poor Dad , and yourselves, went through such an awful and scary time! It's fantastic he has bounced back so quickly, sounds like quite a character! 😊 Xxx

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leo60 in reply to Niao

Thank you 😊 He is mainly cross at the fact he will not be able to drive again, he only got his license back last summer from his last attack! I am, to be honest, relieved he is off the road, but that’s a different story! He is an ex helicopter test pilot, and the fact he now can’t even drive a car does not sit well with him. Our stepmum is brilliant and her just being there takes a lot of the pressure off! How she puts up with the stubborn so and so I really don’t know!! Any way, there it is. I would like to give him a hug though , he won’t show it but I know he is scared 😢Some people just down the road have chooks and one of them always sounds as if she has laid a square egg, poor little lady, but it does make me smile! Xx

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Niao in reply to leo60

That's quite some career! No wonder he's a bit put out, poor thing! I'd like to give him a hug too! Oh the poor little chooky, I feel her pain! 😄 Well, thankfully I don’t! Xxx

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leo60 in reply to Niao

Awww, bless you! You are very kind ☺️☺️ Yes I’m glad I don’t feel her pain either!! 😆😆 xx

I for one love nature very much. I never saw birds as part of them but now u are changing my mentality, I think living with em on a daily basis made me think they were part of us which they are. Nature have that power to release stress and indeed covid, we make as much friends. Loved ur post

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😊 Thank you Zoom! I'm a Nature fanatic! I have always loved birds, my Dad used to take me birdwatching from a very young age. It certainly does release stress! Xxx

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springcross

Fantastic post Niao, great reading. You have thrushes!! I am so jealous as they are my favourite birds. We have a good variety here too but nowhere near yours. We have a hanging nesting pocket above our kitchen door which has sloping tiles above it (it has been there for several years now) and it's where a wren roosts every night and in the last couple of years broods have been raised there. We don't usually get droppings below it until they start getting ready for nesting but I noticed last night that there was fresh droppings on the step and mat below it so that means, I think, that another brood will be raised there this year but it does seem quite early to me as it's usually round about April time. I may be wrong but time will tell. xx

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Niao in reply to springcross

Thank you springcross, yes I remember you having a fondness for Thrush! Actually we only see the Song Thrush quite frequently. When we moved in there were both Mistle and Song. Can't believe I forgot to list the Wren! Gorgeous little things with the most amazing voices! Did you see them on Springwatch, I think, where there were over 16 in one nest! All birds seem to be nesting a lot earlier these last few years. I think you may be right in thinking April's the norm but I'd have to check. My memory is awful, every year I find myself checking times of nesting!😄😊💕💕

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MadBunny

What a lovely story. I love my birds. Sadly because there's so much residential development near me now and we have lost a lot of the trees and green spaces we don't get as many as we used to. However we have got a good heathy sparrow population who nest every year in the eaves of our terraced houses. I've been watching them clear out the old nests this week. We also get lots of goldfinches and bluetits😁🐰

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Niao in reply to MadBunny

😊 Thank you Maria. I absolutely loved your photo of your Sparrow at the door Maria! Goldfinches are beautiful, as are Bluetits. It's great to see Sparrows as their population had been, not sure how it stands at present, in decline. Xxx

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MadBunny in reply to Niao

Yes I love them. Ours are such characters 😁🐰

He's a stunning example of his species Niao! So wonderful to read his story and your efforts to pull him through his trauma. A really lovely read. Thank you!

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Thank you so much Callendersgal. I felt a little sense of pride there for Patchy, he's starting to get on a bit now, poor little dear, so I will pass on your compliment to him!😄😊 Xxx

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Thank you Jerry, so glad you liked it. You have a great day too!😊 Xxx

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😊Thank you! Wow, he/she must have been tiny, such beautiful little birds! An amazing woman, Hummingbird Lady, sounds absolutely devoted to helping these little guys! I am filled with admiration for people such as herself, they do a remarkable, and very much needed, job! If I had the money I would ensure that each and everyone of these kind and inspirational people would never run out of funding to continue their invaluable works. Xxx

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Hb2003

Aww so adorable and the story is so heartwarming ❤️❤️🫂

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Niao in reply to Hb2003

Thank you Sunshine, hope you're having a lovely day!😊❤💕❤

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Hb2003 in reply to Niao

Your welcome ❤️ I hope that you are too ❤️. I think my day is going to be wonderful 😄

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Niao in reply to Hb2003

You think, and it will happen! Positive as ever, our little ray of sunshine! I'm going over to your post to say hello!😊❤💕❤

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