Hi.. I'm new. My name's Carl. I don't have PNI but my girlfriend does. If you're on here then well done you.. I don't mean that to sound patronising but I know doing this isn't easy and probably hasn't for any of you... That's why I'm here instead of my partner. I need help. Not with helping her though. I know that sounds strange but I can't help her. You guys may when she takes the step to come here. And doctors can but I can't.. I need help to just be there. Helping is causing problems. I need help to stop helping. She's my world and I'd give my life for her but that has unfortunate side effects. When she's tired I carry her. To bed... to the bathroom... everywhere. When she's poorly I sit her up and feed her home made chicken soup. And I know what it's like to have a cold and to be worn out so I know what I can do for her but right now there's nothing I can do. She cant feel anything. She doesn't even love me. Well she does but she doesn't seem to have the card to draw it from the bank. She doesn't respond to anything except with dismissive muttering. I'll wrap it up before it turns to a novel bit the background is we have 2 children 16wks and 20mnths. Between the two was a miscarriage. My only her 5th and 6th. 4 to previous 1 of whom passed at 16mnth 17 yrs ago. Eldest daughter estranged due to pre eclampsia and trauma after. If somebody here has any understanding I'd love to here from you. Please. I just want to know what you think I should do. Or not do. Thanks x
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