ALERT!!
Despite the humour in this post , this form of HEADACHE can be experienced by WOMEN and MEN TOO , it is SERIOUS and if you are regularly suffering with them you should TELL YOUR DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY ! Don't be embarrassed .
Now for the fun.
Anyone who read my previous post about my test for Cryoglobulinemia last week will be glad to hear the results were negative , there was no need to treat my blood like an unexploded bomb , I am not radioactive , you can cancel the HASMAT suits you have for delivery from Amazon on one day rush. I may not explode yet!
Some people who read my posts last week will also know as well as picking up those results I was being sent for an Emergency Neurology Assessment because the Consultants became hot under the collar about a particular type of headache I had experienced.
So , I get in with the not one but two Neurologists , I start relating my tale of GCA headaches ( complete with coloured in pictures!) they listen , put these to one side and say , ' Yes , but what about the headaches you have from sexual activity?'
Yes , the GCA was of no interest at all , the only thing causing alarm to their senses was the fact that I had had to give up on any form of amorous behaviour for nearly two years because of the spontaneous blinding temple headache at the point of the Big 'O'!
Ok, I did take pity on my long suffering OH occasionally ( Christmas , Birthdays , Anniversary , Big Match win it's rude not to ) but on the whole any of the bedroom department activities have gone out of the window because of the headpain .
As I pointed out , ' Really 15.... No, 10 .... No , let's be really honest about 5 minutes of pleasure isn't worth all the pain , and it's not just a matter of the big event , trying other forms of arousal has the same effect too.'
This provoked instant worry and has now caused me to be referred for an Emergency Brain Scan , MRI , EEG and Coronary Ultra Sound!!!
Yes , folks , if you have read my posts and replies in the last few weeks it's the ' Big O' headache that has caused it , not the level of insanity that you see in my writing , but at least like Sheldon Cooper in the ,' Big Bang Theory' when people ask on this site if I have gone mad I may be able to say , ' No , I've been tested!'
I had got used to this extra type of deprival over the years and really didn't think anything of it but it seemed to have put all my recent Consultants into some form of apoplectic shock, and then ( and here comes the healing humour ) I suddenly thought , perhaps the idea of a woman giving up sex because of headaches is because they are all Men.
My headaches are creating a feeling a sense of doom in their Male hearts , not their medical minds .
They are panicking , not for me but because....
No longer can they turn over in bed at night to their wives or pretty girlfriends with a wry smile and roving hand and when she proclaims ,
' Not tonight Dear I've got a headache '
they cannot say , ' Trust me I'm a Doctor and I've got a cure for that !'
Because somewhere back in the deep , dark corners of North Wales there is a Woman who can categorically prove that not only will this bedtime behaviour not cure a headache , it might just cause one!!
No wonder they are trembling in their boots !
With this in mind I also began to have suspicions that I might not need these tests at all , but after my brain scan , when they slide me into the MRI , rather than testing me , they plan to lay a Wilie Coyote style trap , grab a bunch of 2 by 4's and trap me in there.
I can see them now scampering about like frenzied cartoon characters , hammering the planks in place with such speed that half the nails are left bent and then finally adding a big sign that says ,
' DO NOT OPEN , NOT EVEN AT CHRISTMAS!'
By doing this they will be able to keep the myth alive that bedtime activities cure a headache for the whole Male race to maintain and save their species from alot of sleepless nights.
Of course , there is a very serious side to this , and if spontaneous headaches during or close to the Big O is an indicator of a red flag in brain medicine , not just a red flag to the hearts of red blooded men , please do tell your Consultants if you suffer from it.
It is important to be checked out , despite the embarrassment it might cause , for Men as well as Women , and can be an indicator of a crisis event if you notice that it has happened to you.
In the meantime , for me personally Abstinence is the only Cure ( sorry OH ,nothing special in stockings this Christmas !).
And please , if you have experienced off-the-shelf sorts of headaches and are willing to share on this post , both comments serious and words of fun may really be of help to others in the PMR/GCA community as it could be a symptom which adds to the picture of our condition or bring some relief like I hope I have done to others who have been suffering with the , 'Big O Ow!!' for years but were too scared to say.
Hope to hear all comments both medically helpful and , as ever, non medically useful but capable of giving us all some well earned stress relief.
Off to hospital until 6pm , but will answer all comments when I return.
Take care all and have as we say here at 'The Asylum' a Good PMR / GCA day!
BEE xx
PS: IMPORTANT ADDITION!
If you have questions on this issue but don't want to reply in public post PLEASE do send me a private message in the chat board and I will answer you there.
AND PLEASE if you have read the post and it doesn't affect you but you think it's important to raise awareness of this type of headache symptom , leave a ☺ emoji or just write interesting post in replies section .
If it becomes a popular post it will be highlighted on the site , and , be highlighted for others to read in the next few days , so anyone suffering from this delicate issue will get the chance to become aware of the seriousness of this condition and be encouraged to tell their Doctors.
Thank you very much. BEE xx