Hi all! thank you all for your rsponse to my post, the advice, and comforting words, ( as many others know ) are very comforting, no one, but the suffere of these two demons, understands, the fear, and worry that a sufferer goes through, so to know there is a family out there who does know, and reach out to help each other, is very comforting.
My husband of nearly 60 years, does research, and has the utmost compassion for me, but it is hard for a none suffere to feel the fear of the uknown! to me it is like knowing you are living in a house, with an unexploded bomb in the cellar!.
so again, thank you for your advice, and infinite advice, good luck to one and all!
Kentishgirl