SASHAY …..My good friend and wonderful supportive true lady of the South

[Summergold2]

She is an iconic caring always positive person whose light is starting to dim quickly.

We speak almost daily and is one of the classiest women, stoic and so positive for everyone one here. I am so blessed to call her friend. I know we all lose touch at times and wonder how so and so is doing etc.

Just wanted to share she will be gaining her wings soon…. And my heart is breaking with each day. I wish there were more I could do for her. Love to you all

Summergold2🦋

🦋🩵🩵🩵🩵🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[Lyndy]

Oh no…. I have always loved Sashay’s contributions to this conversation. I am sorry to hear that she is so poorly. Sending lots of love ❤️

[Summergold2 in reply to Lyndy]

she is amazing

[Pinkandwhiteprincess]

Oh gosh … I’m so sorry to hear this. Her posts have been so helpful to so many of us and she will be sorely missed around here. I hope she’s not in too much pain, and that when she does gain her wings, it’s peaceful. I hope you’ll tell her we are praying for her and we appreciate all her contributions so much.

[Summergold2 in reply to Pinkandwhiteprincess]

she is amazing

[candyapplegrey]

So sorry to hear this. Give her our love. xx

[Summergold2 in reply to candyapplegrey]

I certainly will

[Caleda4]

I was so sorry to read this ,as she has always contributed to lots of ladies on this forum. Please give her my love,I will be thinking about her. I hope that she is pain free. xx

[Summergold2 in reply to Caleda4]

it’s been tough trying to balance meds but trying

[Morini]

Please pass on my love to Sashay and thanks for her support and wisdom through this forum. Thinking of you too, it is hard to be saying goodbye to good friends xxx

[Summergold2 in reply to Morini]

thank you!

[Summergold2 in reply to Morini]

will do and thank you

[Pianoplayer731021]

So sorry to hear this about Sashay. Sending my prayers and love to her and you also. Just like Morini has said, it is so hard to say goodbye to a good friend. Bless your heart, take care. xx

[Summergold2 in reply to Pianoplayer731021]

thank you

[0462County]

Please give Sashay all my love and hugs.

Beth xx

[Shan67]

I send all my love to Sashay too and am so very sorry to hear this - I have said this before but I hope she is surrounded by love and care and support. Take care too Summergold - a lovely name for a wonderful friend. Lots of love Shan xx

[Doglover1410]

Please send her my love and letting her know we are all thinking of her. She’s always been one of those people who without meeting I felt as though I’d always known her 💔 xx

[Lirene]

Bless her Lx

[Mariej2021]

So sorry to hear this Sending her love and prayers xx

[delia2]

Thank you for posting this. She has had a warm and kind presence on this site and it is such a loss.

[Tulips66]

Thinking of Sashay & her daughter as she comes nearer to the end of this road which she has travelled with us all. I hope she will slip away peacefully when her time comes & please send her a big hug from me if you get to talk to her tomorrow X Mag

[A1r1t]

So sorry to hear sashay is nearing the end, she is a good soul and as always given good advice and kind words to everyone who has needed them. Sending her love and strength and hope she finds peace soon. ♥

[Nus38]

Such sad news, i hope she is not suffering and in pain.

[Motiva]

Love and kindness to you both as you have shown to others. 🤗

[Summergold2 in reply to Motiva]

thank you so very much for your kind words

[Realistic]

God bless Sashay , its hard to say the right thing, but wish her ❤ love always. Hugs SheilaFxx

[Frenchhouse3]

Hi Summergold,

Thank you so much for updating.

Sashay has been such a wonderful support always on this forum and it’s so sad that she will leave us soon. We will miss her.

I’m glad you both had a close bond, as it really helps on these unpredictable journeys of ours.

Wishing Sashay peace and comfort.

Sending love to you both, it must be very hard for you too right now

Denise xxxxx

[Summergold2 in reply to Frenchhouse3]

thank you Denise I haven’t been able to respond to everyone yet I am so very sad but also very blessed for our daily talks You see no one else knows what we go through and it really does help just talking about next steps how to handle pain why more isn’t being done regarding this cancer especially for those of us who are not braca 1 or 2 or have mutations HER , FOLATE and all the other doors they can enter. We both have nothing and all kinds of chemo. We are the percentage that you google 3 to 5 year survival I hope in the future women will push for ca 125 test even though they are not accurate so THEY say at least it’s somewhere to start! May love and sunshine surround all of us and longevity of life too!

[Frenchhouse3 in reply to Summergold2]

Hi Summergold2

This must be so hard for you knowing that dear Sachay will soon gain her wings and your daily talks won’t be able to continue. I lost another friend I used to meet up with regularly, in January. ( With OC ) She too didn’t have any BRCA’s etc and just given various chemos, that bought her a little more time ( Still precious, every minute of course ). I wish there could have been something else for her.

I feel alone without her. Like Sashay with you, you keep eachother going.

Of course this forum is wonderful too but it’s not a replacement for someone you see or speak to daily.

I thoroughly agree that a CA125 test would be wise as it could save so, so many. I know it doesn’t work in all cases but it does for many and every life saved is so precious.

Good health and happiness to you and please give Sashay my love. Xxxxx

[Summergold2 in reply to Frenchhouse3]

thank you for your kind words!

[Trickysite]

Peace to Sashay and all other teal ladies who are about to gain their wings.

[PlantPower]

I have only recently joined so have not met Sashay who sounds such a wonderful person given all the comments from you all. I am sad that we are going to lose such a great friend and I hope she will pass with light around her, in peace and love. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Lochawe]

ah, really sorry to hear this, as others said she was always so helpful in her posts and responses.. wishing her an easeful next journey please let her know we are thinking about herxx

[Helvelyn]

This is so sad. Loved reading Sashays posts. x💜

[Jannibags]

So very sorry to hear this Sashay was always one of the first to step up with advice and support for everyone else struggling with this dreadful disease. Thinking of her and her family at this very difficult time.🙏💔

[SopSinger]

Sending hugs to Sashay and to you too!

[Twinning]

May she feel the love of this community as her earthly journey ends. She will be in many thoughts and prayers.

[Django123]

Thank you for letting us know this sad news about Sashay. I've been fearing the worst since she stopped replying to posts. She has a beautiful, generous soul and has helped many people with her advice and support. Please give her my love and tell her that I think about her and her daughter every day. --Lani

[Summergold2 in reply to Django123]

I will Lani

[magicgirl7]

Sashay has always been a shining light for all of us on this site. Sending my love to you both and wishing her peace and comfort as she moves onward.

[Mommoo65]

Please give Sashay my love and thank her for her valuable input to this group. Than you for being there for her.

[Barmycharm]

I’m so sad to hear this. Sending love and huge hugs to her and to you. Xxx

[Melody6]

so sorry to read this news 💔

[Differentforgirls]

Sashay is a star who shines brightly on here & know once she gains her teal wings 🦋 her star will continue to shine brightly.

So hope she’s kept as comfortable as possible & has a peaceful end.

Please send love from me xx

[Differentforgirls]

sending love to you too Summergold2

[Summergold2 in reply to Differentforgirls]

thank you so much