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Nstober
Nstober
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Hello to all you amazing and courageous women:

I have posted time to time but would eagerly read updated posts each day. My sister Karen, who was diagnosed in jan of 2018 with 4 a HGS lost her battle yesterday. Months after reoccurence kept progressing that damn ascites came back and wreaked havoc for 5 weeks. She had two great summers and lived each day to the fullest.

I learned so very much that I was able to apply for research and questions from you amazing women. I care for all of you and hope you can continue to make great memories.

Wishes of peace and love to all

Nancy

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Almalyffe

Dear Nancy, I am so sad to hear that your sister has passed and can only hope you find some comfort in remembering the love you shared. When we lose someone, we often focus on the time just before a passing and on the challenges and suffering. Your sister was so much more than her battle and I am hopeful you can think of her in her best days and remember happier times.

Hold onto the love and not the loss. Our hearts are with you.

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Almalyffe

This was just beautiful. You are right I struggle with the suffering part..she never let this diagnosis slow her down she lived a full life still until the last 5 weeks. Sending you love and peace

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Seavccg
Seavccg
in reply to Almalyffe

Lovely words and Reminds me to think about all the good times with my sister before she lost her life to OC in November 2017

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Katmal-UK

So sorry for your loss Nancy xx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Katmal-UK

Thank you katmal your story gave us such hope. Xoxo

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doodoolatrice

So sorry to hear this Nancy. I'm so pleased Karen was able to live each day to its fullest. Sending my love to you and your family, Kerry xx

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Nstober

Yes kerry she lived each day making sure she had fun xo

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lyn1987

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. xx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to lyn1987

Thank you Lyn I wish you all the best with your treatment

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Cropcrop

So very sorry to hear your sister has gained her wings Nancy. Remember all the happy times and I’m sure she will live on through you and all your family. Love and hugs at this difficult time to you all ❤️Xx Jane

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Cropcrop

Thank you Jane I wish you all the best xo

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LittleSan

Your sister sounds a gem. Love and comfort to you. Xx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to LittleSan

Thank you dear wishing you all the best xo

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CharlotteSo_UK

So sorry to hear your news. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family x

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Nstober

Thank you dear I wish you all the best xo

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Seasun36-uk

So sorry to hear this. May you find comfort & strength in the happy memories as time goes on xoxo I’m sure you must’ve given your sister a lot of strength during these past 2 years 🌺🌸🌸🌺

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Seasun36-uk

Thank you dear very kind I wish you all the best

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CallmeMum

Too many wonderful ladies have lost their lives to this awful disease, I hope you find some comfort in your memories of happier times. Lots of love to you and your family at this sad time xxx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to CallmeMum

I know you went through this recently and so sorry for your loss too. I am having trouble dealing with the amount of suffering. I wish you peace and love

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CallmeMum
CallmeMum
in reply to Nstober

What I find comforts me the most is knowing Cindy is out of pain, its the hardest thing I have been through but I know that she would rather we remembered the happier times rather than the sorrow of her passing xxx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to CallmeMum

You know it's still hard to come to grips with it that somehow they ended up with this disease. I wish you much peace and joy..xoxo nancy

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Spirit22

So sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family XX

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Spirit22

Thank you dear wishing you all the best

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avid

Another teal sister has her wings. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to avid

Thank you dear wishing you all the best

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Welshandproud

I'm so sorry to hear about your sad loss and send you my sincere condolences. Another teal sister taken too soon xx

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Nstober

I wish you all the best dear thank you

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gmc920

Nancy, I am so sorry. Thinking of you and all of her family and friends at this terribly sad time. Wishing you comfort, strength and peace.

xx Gina

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to gmc920

Thank you Gina wishing you all the best xo

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Coldethyl

So sorry for your loss - thinking of you all x

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Coldethyl

Thank you dear wishing you all the best

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Lorent

Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time , my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Loren x

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Lorent

Thank you Loren I wish you the best xo

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triplets

Bless you all at this saddest of times. x

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to triplets

Thank you dear wishing you all the best xo nancy

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Neona

I’m so very sorry to read of your loss. Sending much love, Wendy

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Neona

Thank you neona find joy each day and wishing you all the best. Xo

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Perthgirl

So sorry for your loss . Treasure all your precious memories of those 2 summers, and all the others too. 💐

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Perthgirl

Thank you sweetie wishing you all the best. Xo nancy

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Solange

Sending my condolences on the loss of your sister. What a short time she had.. I'm glad she made the most of it.

With love and sympathy, Solange 😊

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Solange

Thank you Solange wishing you all the best xo

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Katiebairdie

I’m very sorry for your loss of of a dear sister. It’s awful news to have to share.

Much love to you at this sad time.

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Nstober

Thank you Katie find joy each day and wishing you well. Xo nancy

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delia2

I’m so sad to hear of your sister’s death. I am sure you were a great comfort to her and I’m glad she was able to enjoy life up until the last five weeks.

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to delia2

Thank you delia she did not let this disease define her find joy each day. Wishing you all the best xo

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Grace123

So sorry for your lost. Sending you and your family much love and healing prayers at this challenging time. xx Sundra

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Grace123

Thank you sandra' wishing you all the best xoxo nancy

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Klb57

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news Nancy. Your sister sounds like an amazing person to continue living life to the full and I’m sure you have so many wonderful memories together which will be a comfort to you xxx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Klb57

Thank you dear wishing you all the best..so nancy

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Maxjor

I knew Karen and she was an example of someone who did live life to the fullest--even in the hospital with little time left, she was making plans for November. A caring and bright person who enjoyed food, gardening, playing in a marching band, and her pool (!) is who she was as only a small part of her full life. I will miss her and our daily texts and emails. She told me she was scared but that was the extent to her reaction to what was happening....another sign of who she was and how she lived life.

So sorry Nancy--as an only sibling I am sure the loss is a bit harder for you (is it ever less than very hard?) but as you said you have a loving supportive husband and also I am sure friends and relatives to help you though. Hugs, Judy

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Maxjor

You know how I feel about you Judy you are a gift. I will continue to March along side you and kit on this journey. You gave my sister so very much during this journey. You are a beautiful person

Hugs

Nancy

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ellseybellsey

So sorry for your loss Nancy, I am sure you have wonderful memories and lots of love and laughter, fly high teal sister 🦋🦋🦋

Ellsey xx

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Nstober

Thank you ellsey how lovely wishing you all the best.

Xo

Nancy

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juliamillen

So sorry for your loss. Your sust

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juliamillen

So sorry for your loss. Your sister sounds an inspiration. I hope you will take strength in the thought that she made the most of what time she had

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to juliamillen

She sure did thank you dear wishing you all the best..so nancy

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belle1958

So sorry x

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Lind58

My heart is broken by your post. No words. I am so sorry for your loss

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Lind58

Thank you dear do something fun every day wishing you the best..xoxo

Nancy

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January-2016-UK

So so sorry to read this. Another taken too soon. So heartening to read she made the best of life. Take care.

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Nstober

Thank you dear as she would say do something fun every day

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Barmycharm

Hi Nancy so very sorry to hear you’ve lost your beautiful sister.

Thinking of you and sending love and hugs

Claire xx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Barmycharm

Dear claire thank you for your thoughts wishing you the best xo

Nancy

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Mptelesca

dear Nancy, so deeply sorry for your loss. The fact that she lived each day to the fullest is heart warming and made me smile. I know each moment with her was precious. You are an angel for taking care of her.

Love, Marisa

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Mptelesca

Dear Marisa thank you go out and live life to the fullest wishing you all the best💕

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Luci22

I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your loved ones. May she rest in peace and may you be comforted knowing that she had you by her side every step of the way. xo

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Nstober

Thank you dear wishing you all the best xoxo

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Artgreen

I am so sorry to hear of the sad loss of your sister. I’m thinking of you and the family at this very hard time. The depth of sadness is matched by the depth of love. The love never disappears. Sending my love too,

Alex x

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Artgreen

Thank you Alex that was beautiful wishing you all the best xo nancy

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Mrsmerlot

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you all condolences and much love. Xx

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Mrsmerlot

Thank you dear wishing you all the best xoxo

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Btte

Dear Nancy so very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Love Bridie

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to Btte

Thank you bridie I wish you all the best..xo nancy

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IrishMollyO

Dear Nancy

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your dear sister had your wonderful support which I hope in time will give you some consolation. May she rest in peace.

X X

💚💕

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to IrishMollyO

Thank you jo I wish you all the best xo nancy

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Nstober
Nstober
in reply to IrishMollyO

Thank you dear I wish you all the best xo nancy

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ShropshireJo

So sorry for your loss Nancy. I’m close to my sister who is a huge support as I find my way through this disease so I’m sure your sister was very glad of your tremendous support. Jo 🌹

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