Hi, this is dibill, Luk4ward's husband. This morning I found myself confronted with my wife's desire to discontinue with treatment and for the first time in almost five years she has felt she does not wish to continue, think Lynda/Linda Bellingham, may she RIP. I have totally gone into free fall after this and have had a drink, but I will support my lovely wife's wishes. I was on the forum a couple of weeks back when my wife was in hospital with an sub-acute bowel obstruction. She has not recovered from that and has lost all motivation and her lively spark has gone. How do you re-enthuse a loved when they have decided they have had enough. My focus has changed from putting options on the table to planning end of life. I feel that anything I do now to prolong my wife's fight is against my wife's wishes and I will not do that. My wife's wishes are paramount.