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Literally the worst day ever. So a supposedly friend of mine confessed that he was in love with me . After being friends for a month ! I told him I don’t think of him like that. I even tried to block him only for him to text me and call from 8 different numbers. He threatened my sis and I because my sister told him off. He then starting on my social media so I had to deactivate all my accounts! He told me and showed me a pic of me that captioned horrible things about me and said he would send it to everyone on and off social media . That put my anxiety through the roof! I feel so guilty that I put my sister in that predicament. The guy possesses obsessive traits and he wouldn’t leave me alone. I went to change my phone number today. I’m hoping that is all that’s needed to avoid him . I just feeel soo guilty because he may start mess on my sisters social media .. I literally am sick with guilt

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Well, 5 months ago it happened the same thing to me. (Then, I didn't know anything about OCD and I thought that the symptoms were a part of my personality. )

My aunt was his godmother. He was begging me to be his girlfriend for months but one day I told him that I don't like him like that. Then he got mad at me and he started using bad words! I was really upset and my anxiety was like crazy. He was also telling me that he would kill me!!! So, don't worry because I faced that too. Now he is begging me to be his friend again. ( but I obviously don't want anymore...)He is now might telling people things about me that are lies but I don't care at all anymore. But I needed a long time to get over this.

I don't know if that can help you, but... be yourself and don't care of what other people say about you. If someone loves you and know what kind of person you are, then he will understand that all are LIES!

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Phillips319 in reply toClary_fray

Thankyou for your story! ☺️ I’m starting to worry less and less about it each day. There are days when I think that he is going to post lies all over Facebook because I wouldn’t be his girlfriend but then I think to myself ok , who cares about that psycho, I’m not going to let him get to me lol everything you’ve written , I’ve experienced with this person as well.

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