RA and entertaining the family.

[ddwyer]

I was originally diagnosed with PMR and a couple of years later with RA. I therefore take immuno-suppressant medication. My stepdaughter and her family want to visit us next week. There are four of them and I'm not sure if the two children (15 and 17) have been vaccinated. If the weather is fine, we're intending to have a picnic in the garden. If not, my husband wants them to be in the house, around the dining table, as normal. Is this wise and should I be worried? Any comments or advice gratefully received.

[Piwacket]

My family came to visit last weekend and I had same concerns- mentioned to my GP on a call and she advised they all had, including 9 year old grandson two lateral flow tests the week before 48 hours apart - it worked for us and we had a lovely time

[oldtimer]

I think that you need a discussion with your family about it. Possibly cancel if you can't be outside?

Or get them to have tests as suggested above?

Several people I know have been visited by their families who have tested and quarantined for 10 days before coming to stay.

[Mmrr]

My partner, daughter and son who have stayed with me post operatively, socially isolated for 10 days before coming to my house.

My son had a bit of a cough 5 days before his 'turn' he took a PCR test which was negative.

If it were me, I would have a chat with my family about what to do should the weather be wet.

[helixhelix]

When you say immuno-suppressive meds what exactly do you mean? As if you are on steroids for your PMR that is considered the most risky drugs. Others less so.

But discuss your concerns with your family. And only do what you are comfortable with - but bearing in mind that covid is not going away any time soon.

I seem to be unusual on this forum in that I am living pretty normally, seeing people, going out, visiting people’s houses, having friends to stay etc etc.... But I recognise that’s my choice, based on my own assessment of my risks.

[Feank in reply to helixhelix]

I agree with you. So am I. Being careful and cautious , no raves or party's but just being sensible. This is not going away any time soon and I am feeling safe and comfortable and that is ok for me. Stay safe and well.

[janmary]

Teenagers will have been doing tests at least weekly all term and whole year groups sent home for over a week if anyone in their year has tested positive. At that age they’re not likely to be wanting cuddles and will probably be engrossed on their screens if inside. Hope for sun!

[Hidden]

Morning. I had my great niece (4) and nephew (1) here on Friday for the first time since March 2020. It was lovely tbh. It was only when their mum came to pick them up that I was a bit concerned she wasn’t wearing a mask. She only stayed for a drink, but I was still a bit anxious. The windows were all opened everywhere as soon as they were gone, and I wiped all surfaces and seating down, and sprayed some Dettol round in all the rooms and hallways (even where we hadn’t been). Also gargled with mouthwash, washed face and hands and got changed (clothes to pjs).

This is the first time anyone has been in my house (except mask wearing workmen) for well over a year.

Gently does it I think; only do things you are comfortable with.

I am CEV.

[KAISETH]

I have a similar problem,my sister died in January.Her husband has arranged a memorial service et C for her on the 7th Aug.I live in Dorset this is in Norfolk,a good 6 h r plus journey(traffic permitting)

To add to the Covi d I have also been put on "" water"tablets for another problem.

I do not think it is feasible for me to travel..I am in my late 70s. Not that would normally stop me but...