Dilemma help!

[nsd_user663_59644]

You see be hind my back my oh went, to see original eye surgeon, to say was not doing good, after many phone calls,my original surgeon has given me a appointment, he does not do private now ( to do with tax) so nhs. In late June, not to sure how to handle this, I know should put my big girl knickers on and say you have stuffed my life, but in reality think will just fold under and cry.

Wish I was harder, but quite sensitive, I just well up even typing ? Nightmare x

[nsd_user663_60964]

Tracey, my suggestion is that you go, but take your OH or someone else close to you along for moral support and to provide another pair of ears or intervene if appropriate. I should also compile a list before-hand of what you want to say, what you want to ask and what you want to achieve from the meeting/any follow-up afterwards.

I think however the meeting works out if you don't go you may regret it later. But TG is right- it has to be whatever feels right for you. You've been through so much pain and anguish already.

Whatever you decide, I shall be sending lots of good wishes and hugs your way.

[nsd_user663_59644]

Ummm ummm not to sure as what

[nsd_user663_29008]

Tracey, very sound advice from the others - wishing you all the best xx