lve been stopped for 42 days now but by God l had to suffer for it. During the first few weeks my girlfriend left ashtrays in our bedroom with butts in them. She would go to work during the day and l would return from nightshift to the smell of smoke in the room and the ashtrays by my bedside. She would light up in front of me at first untill l cracked and screamed at her not to.She wasnt happy l did this but l was told by the doctor l had to stop due to stomach ulcers which were causing serious problems in which l couldnt face work such was the pain. When l stopped the ulcers subsided and the thought of my health spurred me on to do whatever it took to stay stopped. She has since decided to stop and is doing very well,into her third week,two of which were with patches.She says she didnt mean to leave ashtrays because she was in a hurry to get to work and she kept forgetting ld stopped so she would light up. Now she knows how difficult it can be to give up and has since appologised and realises the hell she put me through. l love her anyway so all is forgiven. I wish the best for you guys. Your families will be proud of you.