If you don't see me around on here much it's because something has happened and I don't think I can help others very much just now.
It's all due to a letter that came Saturday I can't go into detail but it rocked me pretty bad (Not a tax bill). I am not just saying this but many would have started smoking again after getting this. Some day I may be able to devulge what it's about.
I like to come on here and try to help others but don't feel I can do that right now. I am on 7 weeks 5 days and I can't give that up so I will try very hard to get through this smokefree. I'll stay logged on for a little while and after I log off don't worry if you don't hear from me for a while I'm sure I'll be back.
Jack.
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Oh Jack, have missed your posts recently. Sorry to hear we wont hear from you for a while.... You look after yourself & hope all gets better for you very soon..... Big Hugs and try and keep strong.... Kaz x x
What ever it is Uncle Jack...keep that chin of yours up! Hopefully you'll be able to ride your challenges out quickly and come out the other side that little bit stronger and with a smile on your face.
Jack, this place isn't just for you to help others, it's for you to get help too when you need it. And it sounds like you really need it right now.
Don't disappear, keep talking, a problem shared is a problem halved and all that. Smoking makes nothing better, you know this. Maybe nobody can wave a magic wand for you but you have a heck of a lot of friends here, and that includes me.
Stay with your quit Jack and keep coming here if only to read and help remind you what your quits all about. This site helps but you've got the strength to keep it going well.
What ever the news, it wouldn't be different if you were still smoking.
I'm going to log off now and I want to say thanks to you all for everything. I promise I wont be far away and I will be watching you all. Keep your quits going, I'll be back soon.
The road is littered with boulders that we have to surmount i send u boots
Oh shit you are the one on here who is keeping me sane because you are on the road in front of me holding out your hand and while I know you are there I can keep walking and knowing that the path you take is a little rough sometimes its not a problem cause I know that if you can carry on going along that road then i can follow you and reach all the same points that you have passed Jack dont be gone long and keep as strong as you have made me God Bless & Take Care xxxxxxxxx
I wanted to give you a hug, this forum is a support forum and we are all here to help and support you. I'm sorry you are going through a rough patch as well as quitting, but we are here when and if you need us.
Oh Jack so sorry to here you are going through a difficult time. We are here for you though - you know that. Don't you worry about not being able to come on here - you do what you need to do to sort things out. But DON'T SMOKE.
You take care Jack and we are all here when you need us
Jack, this place isn't just for you to help others, it's for you to get help too when you need it. And it sounds like you really need it right now.
Don't disappear, keep talking, a problem shared is a problem halved and all that. Smoking makes nothing better, you know this. Maybe nobody can wave a magic wand for you but you have a heck of a lot of friends here, and that includes me.
Here for you with love, support and huge hugs,
Stay strong Jack,
Jenni xxx
Jack, sweetheart, I agree with the post above from yournamehere, great post ynh, and all the others. We are thinking of you and wishing you well love, so you take care and know that we are all here for you and if we can return some support to you we would be happy to do so. Love and hugs sweetie, Vivienne. xxxx PS Dont forget the Penthouse Jack, will ya? xxxx
Oh Jack - I hope that you can ride this out - you said that the letter could land you in a whole lot of trouble if you can't prove your innocence - well, good luck I hope you can.
Try and keep up the quit - you've obviously got something heavy here, but remember how inspiring you've been to so many.
Good luck - I hope things work out okay - hope to see you again on here soon.
If you just want to vocalise in text any feelings you got right now, send them my way, you know i'll listen.. and listen some more in a reading kind of sense, and i will try my best to help if I can. I mean that wholeheartedly and with no exception Jack.
if you need an outlet, i don't mind at all.
No idea what the letter what, but i can tell its shook you.
Sometimes, life and its troubles seem overwhelming. Maybe you think no one cares. Maybe your life feels out of control. Maybe you had a bad day … or a bad ... but that is life, there are always difficult to overcome.
What a bunch you all are, I can not answer each and every message (post) on this thread individually. All I can say is if I was not stopping smoking I would still come on here just to talk to you guys.
Thank you all so much for your kind words and messages plus the offers to help. The problem I had I still have but I'm hoping it will be dealt with next week and I don't think me staying off here will help me or others on here.
I'm seeing a few newbies on here and I think I need to get my finger out and go and help them. I'm an oldie now because I have been stopped for 8 weeks 1 day.
Thank you all.
Jack, for the guys? a handshake. For the girls? use you imagination.
Good to see you back and dealing with stuff in a 'still quit' way, good for you
All the best with getting some solution to things next week or very soon.
So then, clip board and high heels? Now that is a picture to make one grin and chuckle.
Re the links you sent me. One worked great and was a real pleasure to listen to. The msm (?) one I couldn't get to open/work/play so I need to try better and I look forward to listening to that.
Sorry I found this thread so late but I have been wondering where you were the last couple of days and wondering how you were doing.
I am so sorry to hear you are having a difficult time. I do hope you are talking to someone about it whether it be in here or in real life. You do spend a lot of time helping others and its ok to take some support for yourself.
I am really pleased you decided to come back. You helped me so much in my first few days when I was a bit lost and here I am at day 22. Almost day 23! I really appreciated your kind words and still do.
The thought of you coming down to Glasgow if I so much as went near a cigarette in that first week did frighten me into sticking with it as much as it made me laugh
You know it's great to see you Lindsay on just about two weeks and Deb you on day 22. Of course now I'm back on here I can keep a watch on you two but it's a pleasure not a chore. Hmm I'll have to go and find Jenni and Sharon to see how they are doing.
Hi Sue and Pol hope you're both okay and not craving except for me of course.
Pol can you direct me back to that link and I'll try to sort it for you.
Sorry just about to leave the computer you all have a good night.
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