Day63

hello every1

i am quite convinced that i am not going to smoke again, after the stressful evening i had last night. on the up side Arsenal won.

The downside is my ex has threatened to throw our 17 yr daughter out of the house she lives in, my daughter is in Cardiff at the moment working with the BBC on dr who and she is due back at college begining of sept but she wants to stay in cardiff carry on working with the bbc and maybe take a year off get a job fulltime, she wants to do a prostetics course @ college in London as she wants to do make up for tv and film. My x cant seem to let go and forgets my daughter (Jade) is 17 and can do what she wants. I spoke to Jade she his morning she was upset and her mum told her she was a f*cking disappointment and she was going to throw all her clothes out unless she comes home and goes back to college, my daughter wants to come and live with me now. I am hoping that my x calms down and they sort this out, now if i was still a smoker i would have been puffing away like a trooper, and i wasnt even tempted didnt even think of having a smoke

Sorry for the rant just makes me really stressed and NO i dont want a ciggy

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  • well i am having day off 2morrow as its pittance (pay hahha) day and i have no food in so need to get some shopping in. so i will speak to all you wonderful people on monday have a nice smokefree weekend all.

    hopefully i can keep out of my x's way until she comes to her senses about our daughter.

  • Good luck Andy, with your daughter. Have a great weekend. Stay strong.

    xxxx Pupalup xxxxx

  • If any of my kids are as together and well balanced and sure of anything as your daughter is I will find that a great thing, I will be very proud of them!! not bloody disappointed!!! OMG I can't believe that!!!! :mad:

    Try not to get in a big fight any of you!! if you and your daughter stay in control your ex should come round quicker!!

    Your daughter is amazing I am proud of her x x

    ~Buffy x x

  • Try not to get in a big fight any of you!! if you and your daughter stay in control your ex should come round quicker!!

    Buffy thanks thats is why i have told Jade not to speak to her mum if she calls, that is also why i havent rung my x because i would have lost it big time with her, i am supposed to be taking her shopping 2 morrow but i will have to phone up and test the water first. I said to jade to leave her for a day to cool down and we will see what happens.

    Thanks to u all for your support, i am so pleased that i wasnt tempted to have a ciggy but i know now that would not have solved the problem, bashing x's wife head against a brick might have solved the problem lol lol.

    Speak to u all on monday (day 67) and i hope evey1 has a nice weekend.

  • bashing x's wife head against a brick might have solved the problem lol lol.

    >_<

    Short term satisfaction i am afraid :rolleyes:

    Hehehehe stick with the keeping calm!

    Good luck with it all x x she should see how good her daughters intentions are!! she wants a job!! she wants education!! she doesn't want to milk of the government and sit on her arse all day!! so that to me is a good teenager!!

    Good for you not smoking it would solve nothing your quite right x x

    Would give you a headache and feel sick too!

    Good luck tomorrow hope you get to spend the day together x x

    By the way when I was in engineering I always wanted to work for behind the scenes BBC, prosthetics would be so cool!! It's a creative job with good prospects and money not the same ol' same ol' day in day out!!

    Stuck in a work shop making 100 offs or following peoples drawings to the exact tolerance no creativity is dull :rolleyes:

    Gone off on a tangent :D soz

    Can we produce a petition to your ex :rolleyes: hehehehe maybe not

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