Hi, 1stly sorry for you ur loss.
patience ! When I tried aged 26 for my 3 yo it took 9 months after coming off the pill I had been on for nearly 10 years , I put it down to The pill in my system for taking so long! Wrong! ! !
Thinking I would b giving myself the best chance to conceive when the time was right I chose a none hormonal coil, when going to have it removed , it was gone ( I estimated 3/4 months earlier as my periods went light and thinking it must have took a year to settle down ) it has took me nearly 2 years to conceive this baby now 7 weeks.
After 1 year trying, went to docs and unfortunately my periods were so frequent that it was not giving me time to ovulate and they wanted to put me on the pill to regulate me but I chose herbal option and I didn't want to prevent a pregnancy.
I know ur really wanting a baby and ur time will come, but these things take time ( hopefully not as long as it took me ) good luck it will happen for u.