Dealing with miscarriage

[Ivyrae]

Had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago it was a suprose pregnancy, and we were originally conflicted but decided to go ahead. Since the miscarriage i have days where i am completely fine then days like to today i am completely overwhelmed with grief. How have other people coped in these kind of circumstances?

[Walker1992]

Sorry for your loss, Take each day as it comes it not the easiest of situations i've been there myself, then a few weeks later i got caught pregnant again and my daughter is now 4days old, i always believe things happen for a reason and in time if you wantes to you always have the option to try again but your body has been through alot so if you feel like you need time out to cry or deal with the situation my advice would be to so it and not bottle it all up. Xx

[LB1234]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I would say it is still very very early days and you are doing extremely well if you are having days where you are feeling a little brighter. I've had 2 MCs - one last Aug and one at Christmas - and I still have days where i'm completely overwhelmed with grief. But gradually those days become less and the other days become a little easier. I found talking to people about has it helped me, I shared with quite a lot of friends and it helped me to have different people to chat to depending how I was feeling - although I know others prefer to keep it private.

Everyone's grief process is different so try to go with how you are feeling and take it one day at a time. Take care of yourself x

[Desidel]

I’m sorry for your loss I know personally how much it takes from you! Health wise and the heart ache and the plans that were already in your mind to do.. I’ve lost two and both were horrible last one really got me cause he was alive and my body went into labor and pushed him out.. this may 27th was a year.. I broke down the whole day!! It will come in waves and out of no where!! But it does get alittle easier as time goes and then you pass that year mark and get back to just dealing.. try talking about it more with people close or therapy which is what I did.. I don’t think I ever delt with it like I should I didn’t grieve enough. Make sure your not holding it in!!! Hugs!!