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Hi please can I have some advice please . Has some may known I miscarriage a month ago now . And sic then I have a lot of problems in so much pain all the time and bleeding so much. So I went to my doctors to find out what was going on with my body. He took my bloods . So yesaday the doctor phoned me back over a week later . And sed I am sill showing says of the HTC levels . Right but what I don't get is after I lost I went for a check up they sed evything has come away so if everything has come away why is it that I am sill showing signs I don't get it . So this morning the early pregnancy unit phoned me . And have asked me to come in soon has possible for some test they think I was pregnant with twins and they did not pick it up . Ok so if I was per with twins and one of the babies is stuck like they think . What will happen how do they remove the baby . I am so mad because all should of picked all this up when I went for my check up not a month later after weeks of being in pain. Sorry it is long please can so help me I went one Google and it says they may need to operate or something and then something else says something about an D&C . I don't get it thanks.

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Hi sorry to hear about your situation it must be horrible as you just want to forget about it and move on with your life. If you have any pregnancy tissue left they will do D&C the procedure to remove everything surgically. I had it done and you won’t feel anything, after I woke up I had a little period like pains and bleeding for few days but after what you have been through already you will find a relief.

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Hi just an update and thanks . Sill in hospital they have some lost of checks on me .and they sed I was pregnant with twins when I miscarriage one of the babies come out by it self . When I had my check up they did not pick up there was sill another there . They have told me the baby was behind the womb . I still don’t get why they did not pick it up but they did not . So after all that they start to help me they give medication that went up my bum they did this to try and make the baby come out after hours later nothing jut part from me be bleeding a lot . So then they D&C the procedure to remove everything surgically they put me to sleep for it . Now it all has come away and I just have a little period like pains and bleeding . They confirmed that the babies must have been 11 weeks which I got told a when it happened at the beginning a month a go that I was 9 weeks . Turns out they was wrong . Now it is all over I can now when they let me out of hospital I can go home and try and get on with my life now .

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Hey hun

I'm really sorry for what is and, has happened to you my love.

I know it's, hard but try not to worry the epu won't do anything until they've scanned you again. From there they will get an answer of what's, happening and take it from there.

Sending you hugs and love and keep us updated 😘💝

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Hi please can I have some advice please . Has some may known I miscarriage a month ago now . And sic then I have a lot of problems in so much pain all the time and bleeding so much. So I went to my doctors to find out what was going on with my body. He took my bloods . So yesaday the doctor phoned me back over a week later . And sed I am sill showing says of the HTC levels . Right but what I don't get is after I lost I went for a check up they sed evything has come away so if everything has come away why is it that I am sill showing signs I don't get it . So this morning the early pregnancy unit phoned me . And have asked me to come in soon has possible for some test they think I was pregnant with twins and they did not pick it up . Ok so if I was per with twins and one of the babies is stuck like they think . What will happen how do they remove the baby . I am so mad because all should of picked all this up when I went for my check up not a month later after weeks of being in pain. Sorry it is long please can so help me I went one Google and it says they may need to operate or something and then something else says something about an D&C . I don't get it thanks.

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Hi sorry to hear about your situation it must be horrible as you just want to forget about it and move on with your life. If you have any pregnancy tissue left they will do D&C the procedure to remove everything surgically. I had it done and you won’t feel anything, after I woke up I had a little period like pains and bleeding for few days but after what you have been through already you will find a relief.

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Hi just an update and thanks . Sill in hospital they have some lost of checks on me .and they sed I was pregnant with twins when I miscarriage one of the babies come out by it self . When I had my check up they did not pick up there was sill another there . They have told me the baby was behind the womb . I still don’t get why they did not pick it up but they did not . So after all that they start to help me they give medication that went up my bum they did this to try and make the baby come out after hours later nothing jut part from me be bleeding a lot . So then they D&C the procedure to remove everything surgically they put me to sleep for it . Now it all has come away and I just have a little period like pains and bleeding . They confirmed that the babies must have been 11 weeks which I got told a when it happened at the beginning a month a go that I was 9 weeks . Turns out they was wrong . Now it is all over I can now when they let me out of hospital I can go home and try and get on with my life now . X

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This must be such an emotional time for you, I would try and keep calm until you have been seen at EPU, write down any questions you have so you make sure you get all the answers you need when you get there. Try to remain positive and stay off google because nothing good ever comes from google!! Hope everything goes ok

Awww bless you that’s awful hope your feeling better xxx

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