Seriously freaking out

[scared19]

I'm 19 and just took a clear blue digital on the 10th of June and it came back positive but the one at the health department said negative I don't know what to do I need help please

[Hotdiggitydog]

You can't get false positives but you can get false negatives so it would seem you are pregnant. Now you need to make about appointment with your gp and they will refer you to a midwife. How do you feel about being pregnant? You sound a bit shocked in your post x

[scared19 in reply to Hotdiggitydog]

I'm not sure how to feel I want to be excited but then again I remember I'm only 19. I also have to worry about finding a new place to live before the baby gets here....

[Cheekymonkey85 in reply to scared19]

I think age is irrelevant when it comes to having children most of the time, plenty of women have been where you are & do an absolutely fantastic job of raising their children. It's a shock for you I'm sure, but don't underestimate what you can achieve before little one arrives xx

[scared19 in reply to Cheekymonkey85]

I appreciate that I'm getting a lot of people calling me awful names because they think I'm so young and because I haven't said anything about who I've been with they don't think I know who the father is and I very much do know

[Cheekymonkey85 in reply to scared19]

Ignore them Hun, it's stress you don't need & to be honest, it's none of their business xx

[scared19 in reply to Cheekymonkey85]

Thank you very much

[chocolatechip]

You will definitely be pregnant. X

[babesinbrum]

As the 1st reply mentioned it's impossible to get a false positive pregnancy test as the test has measured the HGC pregnancy hormone in your urine & therefore detected you're pregnant.

As a woman you obviously have a few choices you can decide to take but would you consider your pregnancy to be detrimental to your life/career or anything ?

The only reason why I ask is because having a baby can be ( or feel like) the most terrifying thing in the world but once your baby is born the emotions & bond that you'll feel your child is amazing.

[scared19 in reply to babesinbrum]

I just want to be excited but haven't grasped it quite yet it hasn't completely set in yet

[babesinbrum in reply to scared19]

It's completely normal to feel scared about pregnancy & beyond as it's a very unpredictable moment & no mother can ever be sure what will happen, but as women especially mothers we just always seem to find a way of dealing with these things.

I wish you luck on whatever you decide to do.

x

[scared19 in reply to babesinbrum]

You guys are helping I just didn't know where else to turn

[gigglysheep in reply to scared19]

Sometimes it doesn't set in until u see the baby shape on the ultrasound with its lil heart pumping for England. Its a shock right now but u will get excited soon I'm sure. Congrats on the pregnancy, ur gonna be fine xx

[scared19 in reply to gigglysheep]

Thank you

[ash23]

i had the very same thing happened to me . clear blue test came back postitive went to my doc and her test was negitave . left it a week and went back to my doc and it came back positive the next time best of luck hun xxx