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Today my best (4 legged) friend, Sadie crossed the rainbow bridge. She took a turn for the worse on Saturday and declined rapidly. She had a special place in our hearts. I have had several dogs in my life and have had to put a few of them down due to illnesses but have never felt devastated like I have with Sadie. She was a fighter all the way to the end, she even fought going to sleep after the sedative the vet gave her. She couldn't walk more than 10 feet without gasping for air, yet she kept trying...a few steps - rest - a few more steps - rest - a few more steps and finally at her destination. She tried to follow either my husband or me as she wanted to be near one of us at all times. She had been very clingy since her seizer a few weeks ago. She would look at me as if she was asking for help when she couldn't breathe. I felt so sad & helpless, all I could do was hold her, which isn't an easy task with a German Shepherd and my 64-year-old knees that don't like to bend. But she isn't in any pain any longer and that's a comfort to me. My husband & I had a much needed good cry after we got home. I haven't seen my husband cry in a long time. 3 years ago we lost his dog to cancer. He did tear up but he didn't boohoo like he did today. Sadie was special to both of us. She was always there when we needed her, to celebrate the good things and to console us during the hard times. She had that extra sense to know when to put her head on our laps when we were feeling down as if she was telling us "it's going to be ok." Sadie, you will be terribly missed.

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twooldcrows

it is so hard to loose them ..they are just part of the family...yes they do know when we are down or sick and need them to perk us up ...we have lost five over the last several years ...two were the parents of the pups all in one family they were so great but got old and others got health issues early and that just tore all of us...they were like my kids and they were my children's dogs and ours ...we lived where we shared them between the two houses with fenced yards that they could run between the houses ...it was so hard ...they lived many many good years ...love and happiness is what they brought all of us ...

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greaterexp

That breaks my heart for you both. You’re in my prayers. She was a great dog, and you gave her a loving, wonderful home.

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jimeka

Oh I am so sorry. I have welled up in tears, I understand what you are going through, Sadie was a beautiful dog who will live in your hearts forever. I dread the day when it will happen to Razor. Cry but remember her with love and thankfulness because she certainly gave you many years of memories, you are in prayers, blessings Jimeka 🤗 🙏 💐

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rjoneslaw

I understand what you're going through it's hard to loss a loved one. They are your baby best friend and more. After I had to make that decision I choose not to get another dog because it wouldn't be right

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2littletime

So sorry for your loss. It's always so hard to say goodbye to a loyal friend. May memories bring you comfort.

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Timeflies5

So very sorry about you’re beloved pet, Sadie...a lovely dedication to her...heartfelt prayers...😢🙏🏻

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Peruzzot

Sorry for your loss. She was a very special friend.

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Kenu

So sorry 😐 for your loss. They are so much of our family and give us comfort and joy 😊. After Jody passed in June I would be a lost cause without my furbabies Rozy and Sniper. Prayers are with you and your family 🙏😉 Ken 🐾🐾

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Royjr

Sorry for your loss😞

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Amore55

Oh, my heart breaks for you. I know the loss and sadness you feel all too well. I have had many dogs, but one was most special. She was Daisy a Schnauzer who was my everything. She passed from lung tumors almost four years ago and not a day goes by that I do not think of her or even look for her. It sounds like Sadie is your Daisy. Please remember every bit of love you gave each other. I will pray for your comfort. Love, Kelly xx

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hairbrain4 in reply to Amore55

She was my everything. We were inseparable from the time I got her. She went everywhere with me except in the summertime when it was just too hot.

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goatgal

The loss of a companion animal with attributes like Sadie's is devastating. My heart aches for you and your husband. Those of us who have lost amazing animal friends know how long both grief and love endure. The sharp pain dulls, but our memories are ever bright.

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Cutefreckles72

I am so sorry to hear about Sadie. It hurts when you have to let them go. I had to put down Lexus, my siamese cat. She had feline leukemia. Having pictures of them helps.

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hairbrain4 in reply to Cutefreckles72

I had a cat with leukaemia years ago. She was the sweetest little girl. I hated losing her. I usually take a lot of pics of my animals. But I don't have pics of her. I had her back in the 70's before cell phones & you had to develop your 110 camera film!

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Cutefreckles72 in reply to hairbrain4

I understand. I bet she was beautiful. I have more pics now of my pets than myself. I love my babies. 🐱

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hairbrain4 in reply to Cutefreckles72

Me too!

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mrsmike9

Oh my goodness. I hate going through that. Even typing this makes me tear up! Losing our little sweeties is the hardest thing, I think, to go through. Yes, i am glad your precious baby isn't struggling to breathe and isn't frightened, but for those left behind it is painfully hard. My heart goes out to you and your husband.

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hairbrain4 in reply to mrsmike9

Just reading all of thewonderful replies is making me tear up.

I am so very sorry about Sadie. I so enjoyed seeing your pictures of her. I'm glad you had her for as long you did. I love all my animals but some are just extra special.

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WayneH143

I can't even watch a dog die in the movies much less real life. There is one called Hachi that brings me to tears if i think about it. Dogs can be really special when they're close with you. You carry them with you in your heart forever. peace nd love to you.

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DIsneyQueen

So sorry for your loss, but Sadie is waiting for you and your husband healthy and excited on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge! She is waiting and she is at peace

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mm1527mm

So sorry for your loss. 🙏

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kdali

Aww, I’m so sorry 😭

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Oh, dear hairbrain4 my heart goes out to you. So sorry of hearing of losing your precious Sadie :-D

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Midgey_Midge06

I am so sorry! I just saw this! U r in my heart and prayers! 🐾🐾🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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hairbrain4 Our fur babies are members of our families. If she could, I know Sadie would thank you for letting her go. Remember the good times and thank her for them. Pick one special moment to hold in your heart and she will always be with you. We had to help our 15 yr old kitty cross the bridge, We brought him home to bury him. Less than 6 months later a friend that knew of our loss, called us to tell us of a stray that he couldn't keep. We went to take a look at him and this great big kitty jumped onto my lap and came home with us. We adore him so much and are glad he adopted us.

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hairbrain4

Thank you. I remember her every day. It's been 2 months and I still feel like she should be here even though we now have Jack. She will always have a special place in my heart.

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