Ejected after 30s on first BJ after 8 months of circumsision. Why my glan is so sensitive?

[Sensitivexyz]

Hi there. I got circumsized due to phimosis in April 2019. Before circumcision I had the BJ but it did not feel good and I felt hurt. I tried to intercourse but it hurted due to phimosis so I stopped and got circumcised.

Then yesterday after a long recover, I tried to have sex with other girl (broke up with my ex). I was so nervous and worried if I can intercourse well this time. We had a good foreplay, I got erection during foreplay. But after she took of my pants and tried to put on the condom, I lost the erection quickly. I think because I had pressure if I could intercourse and last long or not. This is my first intercourse ever anw. We tried to do more foreplay but I could not get erection again. So to make it get erected, she gave me the BJ. I immediately got erection again but the glan is too sensitive and I never felt that good before. I ejected after 30s of BJ ... I felt so embarassed.

Is it normal? How can I overcome this problem? I want to intercourse that is one of the reason I got circumcision. And one more thing I find it is hard to put on the condom pass my glan.

I appreciate any advices. Sorry for my bad English. Thanks!

[Nigel5975]

You just gotta keep trying sex. Get comfortable. Maybe try to find a regular partner you can explore with. Communicate that you want to take it slow.

Try masturbating with lubrication to simulate the slippery sensation of intercourse. Try edging where you masturbate almost until orgasm but then you stop and repeat it over and over again. You will get better at controlling when you want to orgasm.

[Clay237]

Talk. Communicate. Be honest. Explain to her that the op has changed things and you are adjusting. That you would love her help.

This problem isn't unique to you. Many people have anxiety because they think they need to be at least what they perceive to be the accepted societal standard.

Sex isn't always about pleasure/duration. Its about an intimate connection.