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hi, my daughter often reaches the limit in her bank account that she is allowed to have by dwp.

As her appointee am I able to use the money for things not related to her, just to keep the money below what’s she allowed.to have in her bank account.

Thank you for any advice.

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No you cannot use it for you. I dont know your circumstances but...you could look into paying a carer to assist with days out, or a holiday.

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greenapple123_

You can use it for things that your daughter would benefit from. Things within the home I’m sure she would benefit from. Some parents forget this, ie, towels, bedding, new crockery etc.

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Scrutineer

If the money in your daughter's account is from her benefit awards it can only be spent in meeting her needs. You will be aware that many ppl with Learning Disabilities struggle to have a decent standard of living on the amount of benefit they receive & rising costs, hence the campaigns by many of us to object to LAs demanding contributions towards care/services. Perhaps your daughter might want to explore activities or care support which may bring her enjoyment and give you respite from the demands of caring. Supported holidays are expensive but can be good for mental & physical wellbeing & would constitute a legitimate use of her benefits. I wish you & your daughter well.

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There is a difference between money from DWP ie PIP ESA UC this money is provided for your daughter help with her disabilities and her living costs so if she lives in your house food heating buying things like ipad new clothes anything that she needs or renewing (bed sheets mattress) to keep it below the benefit cap

If she receives money from county council for direct payments for respite or day services or carersthe this money must be kept separate from DWP money as it has to be fully audited .

I never allowed my sons money to be over £5000 if he needs any thing he gets it

He has no capacity to run a bank acc. As an appointee you are her bank of mum

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