Hi everyone
Have been reading so many inspiring posts by fellow mums of disabled adult children. My husband and I made the really sad and difficult decision to leave South Africa with our very gentle,intellectually disabled, non verbal, ASD daughter, as the country is a dangerous place for the vulnerable and there is absolutely no support. We initially went to Ireland ( Irish passport holders))where she attended a wonderful day service daily while I taught at the local primary school. After a year we missed family too much and never really settled there. As our other 2 adult children are soon to move to the UK and we have many family members here, we have moved and I am due to start teaching in Oxfordshire in September. We’ve been her 2 weeks and the admin is wearing me down. I’ll get over my pity party in about 5 minutes, but would do appreciate advice. If we need her to attend a day service so we are able to work, how do I make that happen. From my understanding, once we’ve moved to an area, only then can we get someone from the council to do an assessment of needs. Then do they recommend the most appropriate service? If I need to open a bank account for her and apply for benefits, do I need formal guardianship?
Thank you for reading my ramblings.